...just when you think it is safe to put the cough syrup away.....

I had a total coughing fit last night. You know the kind...where you can't seem to stop and you feel like you aren't going to live through it (a little drama added here for effect).

I took my heavy duty cough medicine and went to bed...only to awaken around 2 a.m. coughing again. So much for heavy duty!

While lying there awake I began to think of the benefits of coughing like this. I had noticed how sore my stomach muscles were after coughing and began to think about a new exercise video........."Want to tighten up those stomach muscles?...try 'Coughing for Abs!'. "

Think that it would sell???? : O

Chicken noodle soup for the "yucks"

After picking up my prescription yesterday, I purchased ingredients to make a big pot of chicken soup. It is such a comfort food when one feels like they just can't blow their nose one more time! : )

Here's how I make it: One whole chicken, chicken broth and water, carrots, celery, garlic cloves, fresh parsley, a whole yellow onion cut up, scallions, pepper and a pinch of clove. (noodles optional...but, if you ask me...the more the merrier!)

Fill large pot with enough liquid to cover the chicken, etc. Bring to a boil. Cover and let simmer until the chicken meat comes away from the bone and the veggies are tender.

Sip slowly...and, savor! : )

Meds for the "yuck"

...back from the doctor with meds in hand. My diagnosis was right on...bad head cold/sinus infection yada yada. (And, to think that it is the doctors who get paid the big bucks!?!)

Basically, I am lethargic, achy, sneezing my head (you can insert a more interesting body part here) off, coughing and feeling pretty poorly.

Anyone care to join me in a little "pity party"?

AH-chooooo. : (

Yuck.

I try not to complain too much...but, I seem to have an unbelievable head cold or sinus infection, or just plain yuckies.

It may have started with Dave...or, maybe he picked it up from Celia, who may have gotten it at her daycare...or...? Who knows? Not that it matters where the germ originated...but, it's always fun to blame someone or something, right? : )

Keeping tissues close at hand, as well as lots of cough syrup and hot tea, I have been feeling pretty miserable these last few days. My head hurts all over...even my teeth hurt! You know what I mean?!

Luckily, I have a doctor's appointment this morning, so maybe she can shed some light on the situation and help me get rid of the yucks.

I hope so.

I'm ready for it to leave... : o

An ordinary day...?

"If we only knew the real value of a day." ~Joseph Farrell

It started out like any other day...breakfast, my morning walk, a few phone calls, a little paper work, etc. etc.

However, on my calendar for the afternoon was a 12-5 obligation at the gallery where I am showing some of my pottery. As part of the co-op, each artist promises to put in one day working at the gallery...and, today was my turn.

In all honesty, I was begrudgingly seeing it as "something to get over with" when I arrived there at noon today. I prepared myself for a lot of sitting around as I packed up some reading as well as some snacks to "graze" on as the day went by.

Little did I know what interesting people I was about to meet...and the life stories that I was about to share. One young woman that I conversed with was a dynamic soul who wrote poetry. She seemed to have a delightful zest for life. I couldn't help but notice her bright blue eyes and big smile as she spoke to me. I had commented on the little black hat that she was wearing and she immediately told me of its story. It seems that she and her grandfather (no longer living) had shared many of the same traits in life and this seemed to please her tremendously. He sounded like an interesting and multi-faceted man and this little hat of his had become a recently acquired treasure for her.

Another conversation began with an incredibly talented artist who was there helping me "man" the store today. Energetic and charismatic, he is one of those personable people who you instantly feel as if you have known all of your life.

As the day wore on we began to share bits and pieces of our lives....most especially, our divorces. Like me, he, too, had been a part of a long term marriage that had ended about a year and a half ago. We compared "battle scars" and gave our own insights as to what had led to the demise of our unions.

As we talked about "life after divorce" I realized the similarities in people who have gone through this painful experience. The words flowed as we discussed how we were each affected by and how we were handling moving ahead. I felt like I was learning quite a bit from him as I listened to his honest and open emotions. We laughed about the "dating process" after a "later-in-life" divorce...and, I told him about having Dave in my life now.

Since I am rounding the bend on the 8th year of my divorce, my wounds have pretty much healed now. I let him know some of my philosophy of letting go of my past hurts and moving forward with a new friendship with my ex. While not an easy task at first, this decision has enriched my life and made things so much easier for both of my children. I assured him that time and patience are the most important aspect in the process of this journey of healing.

Suddenly I realized that it was 5 o'clock and my "shift" was officially over. Deep in conversation, the time had flown by...

As I gathered my belonging together, we hugged good-bye and I left with a smile on my face.

This ordinary day had turned out to be very special...and, in the process I had made a brand new friend. : )

My Celia and the big world outside Grammie's door....

"There are no seven wonders of the world in the eyes of a child.

There are seven million."

Walt Streightiff

Sitting here this morning listening to the thump, thump, thump........

....of my washing machine as it jumps all over the place while on the spin cycle....probably because I filled it too much as I continue to wash all of the many sheets and towels from the Thanksgiving weekend!

But, I find that it doesn't concern me as I am still in my "love filled daze" from spending time with family...

There is nothing like it...and, having grandchildren now adds even more to the mix.

I think that I will just stay in this happy la la land for a while.

Maybe the washing machine will find a way to "balance" itself... : )

...somehow this disappeared from yesterday's post...so, here it is again! : )

...missing this face.... : )

A letter to Celia

My dear Celia,

As I sit here at my computer desk this morning I am smiling as I think about our time together this Thanksgiving.

Your adorable face just lights up the room wherever you are. And, those eyes! Those gorgeous eyes of yours just immediately capture our attention and draw us right in.

We had so much fun with you as we watched your every move....and laughed at your cute antics....like when you put your hands on your waist or behind your back and swayed back and forth....we are thinking that was dancing. So cute.

Your giggles were contagious as anyone played "peek-a-boo" or "chased" after you! You seemed to love the anticipation of what was to come and then "screamed" in joyous delight that kept all of us laughing right along with you.

It seemed like we could just sit and watch you for hours...you are so entertaining!

Even though my mom (your great grandmother) doesn't get to see you very often...she will forever remember her days with you sitting on her lap and laying your head on her chest in such a loving manner. It was almost as if you sensed that this was a very special relationship. She will be talking about "her wonderful Celia" for many days to come.

Toys are fun....but, you seemed to delight in pushing buttons, "talking" on the phone, hitting the keys on the computer, and holding onto keys! You are fascinated with keys! In fact, I noticed last night that you are holding keys in almost all of the pictures that I took of you! I love that you know what you want and will persist until you get it! : )

So, my dear Celia, today I am posting one of my favorite moments with you...watching you eat your Cheerios and milk! You would put the whole bowl in your mouth at once if you could...What a joy you are...

And, this Grammie couldn't love you any more than I do as I find myself missing your presence already...

Be a good girl...and I will see you in a few weeks!

I love you,

Grammie

Surprise, Grammie!

We are staying one more day!!!!!!!

Celia and her mommy and daddy surprised me by changing their flight from today to tomorrow morning!

How wonderful that news was to hear....I was so grateful for the extra day with my precious Celia.

Today was especially nice in that we went to a park where friends and their children and grandchildren gathered as they have for many years. So, I got to show her off a bit!

Then, back home, Celia and I took a walk together...I read to her....I played with her....I giggled with her....I let her taste my homemade banana muffins....(she liked them!)....I squished playdoh with her....I colored with her....I sat on my tush and went down the stairs with her....she chased me....I chased her....we had some great "just the two of us" time together.

I am so grateful for my extra special day.

SIGH. : )

Gratitude

Mom and Celia...THANKSGIVING 2009

"Gratitude is the memory of the heart." Massieu

My heart is full this Thanksgiving day.....wishing the same for you.

Say "cheese"!?!

Day three with Mom and I am loving every minute of it!

When I got out my camera, she mentioned that she never looks good in photos. (I disagree--I think that she is a beautiful 87 yr. old woman!) But, with that being said...yesterday I decided to show her my secrets to looking younger in a photo. (ha ha)

I told her to lean forward so that the neck looks more elongated. Since she felt like her eyes looked like slits in photos, I showed her how to open them to give a more natural, more open appearance.

Well, needless to say, this all made her laugh hysterically as the camera snapped away. You can see in the photos that her eyes were all red from laughter tears!

She couldn't stop laughing....so, here are the results.... including the last photo when I was emphasizing opening up those eyes.......maybe a little too much!

SUCH FUN!!!!! : )

In case you are wondering why I am smiling today...

Adorable Celia will be here tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! : )

Mom is here!!!!!!!!!!!! : )

(I was trying to do rabbit ears behind her...but only one "ear" is visible!)

The bird at my window...

Lately, while sitting at my computer desk, I have observed an absolutely beautiful cardinal who seems to like a certain branch right outside my window. Since I am high up on the second floor of my house, he is perched on a tall branch where he can observe the whole backyard.

I wonder if he is keeping an eye on his "kids" as they dine on my birdfeeder down below? Or, could he be the "lookout" bird who guards the yard from strangers?

Maybe he is just serenely enjoying the view as he takes a break from his flying through the air?

Whatever he is up to, it gives me a calm feeling as I watch him sitting there seemingly content...

It makes me stop and pause from whatever I am busily doing....making for a nice break in my day.

I look forward to these daily visits of quiet reflection and peace.......

A bird's eye view of the feeder below....

28 pound turkey for 9?

OK. I admit it.

I love Thanksgiving and all of the things that come with it!

And, I tend to go a bit (Dave would say: "A BIT?!?!) overboard when it comes to buying the turkey. I go for BIG.

First of all, truth be told, the stuffing is really my favorite part of the whole deal and I like to have a lot of room for a lot of stuffing. I know that "they" all say that you shouldn't put the stuffing into the turkey (then why did they name it "stuffing"?!??) for health reasons...but, to me, there is nothing like flavorful, juicy stuffing cooked inside of the turkey! I usually make a casserole of stuffing too and mix the two together. Mmmmm. Mmmmm.

Yesterday I did part 1 of my Thanksgiving shopping. It was pretty scary in that I actually went without a list! Unimaginable, eh? Oh yeah, I'll be back for parts 2-9.

Going up and down each aisle I grabbed things off of the shelves that I thought that I would need for our holiday feast. When I came to the meat section I began to inspect the Butterball turkeys for the largest one that I could find. Success! I found a 28+ pounder with my name on it. With the help of a nearby stock boy, we lifted this honker into my already partially-filled cart. I walked away feeling a bit smug as I pictured this gorgeous, golden brown bird adorning my Thanksgiving table receiving great oohs and ahhhs from my 'guests'.

Then, some reality kicked in as I realized that there were only going to be nine of us for dinner and one of the nine was a 16 month old baby with, hopefully, a huge appetite!

What was I thinking? Was there even room in my oven for this? Did I have a roasting pan big enough?

After about ten more minutes of staring at this monstrous bird....lying there... taking up most of my cart, I walked back over to the refrigerator section....put it back in the bin....and picked out a smaller bird.

Had I come to my senses? Not really....the one that I traded it in for turned out to be 24 pounds!

Did I hear someone say: "LEFTOVERS"????? : )

The ceramic leaves are done!

And, here are some of the finished products from a day with the Girlies!

I love them and can't wait to put mine around the Thanksgiving table!

Saturday, Mom will be landing in Atlanta to spend a day with my sister there and then I will pick her up on Sunday....and then a week from today, I will be picking up Jeffrey, Janet, and Celia for the holiday!!

Grammie Heaven. : )

I should have gone to Costco....

It is ten p.m. and I just finished washing the last bowl from my "day of cooking". (yawn)

I thought that I would get a few things made before Mom comes in this weekend...and, the kids arrive next Wednesday. That way I could just go to the freezer and not have to spend the time cooking instead of visiting.

I had purchased some filo dough a few weeks ago in hopes of making some spanakopita on my own. When I told one of my girlfriends about my idea she said, "Are you crazy? Just go to Costco...they have delicious spanakopita and it is even on sale!"

But, stubborn me, I decided to go ahead and attempt to make these little spinach and feta stuffed delicacies on my own. Well, that was a bad idea...they took forever...and don't really even look like the cute little triangles that they are supposed to...but, they are tasty at least.

Of course, then I had the dilemma of what to do with the rest of the filo dough??? I decided to make an apple strudel. I peeled about 8 apples that I had in the refrigerator...sliced them really thin....tossed them with lemon juice, sugar and cinnamon and buttered each thin sheet of dough to hold the apple mixture. The one rolled up strudel did not really make a dent in all of the sliced apples that I had prepared...so, I ended up making three of them as well as four little individual strudels! I hope that everyone that's coming here for Thanksgiving likes strudel !!

I also made a big pot of lentil soup and several containers of butternut squash soup. They have all been cooled down and placed in the freezer awaiting the company.

So, after washing tons of bowls, spoons, pots and pans, I am finally sitting down to relax. I am exhausted....and quite full from tasting everything. **groan**

Oh, yeah, and did I mention that I decided to head to Costco tomorrow??? : )

Sometimes....

..the words come easily.

Other times I find myself sitting at my desk staring at the computer screen not knowing what to write.

Tonight, I have a lot of feelings inside of me...not sure that I can find the right words..but, I will try.

As I sit here I have one close girlfriend who spent part of her day at a beauty salon (opened especially for her) having her head totally shaved. The oncologist had let her know that her hair would start falling out after about two weeks of chemo...and, he was right on target.

She noticed that it was starting to thin out on Saturday and made the decision to have it all shaved off before it began to fall out in larger amounts.

Looking at the pictures that she sent tonight, I have to say that she looks beautiful--hair or no hair. And, the wig that she picked out earlier looked adorable on her.

A moment of comic relief occurred when the hairdresser shaved her remaining hair into a mohawk!

Not to worry, it was eventually all shaved off...leaving a big smile on my friend's face.

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Today, time was spent with another close girlfriend who is anxiously awaiting her appointment with her "cancer team" on Thursday.

Until then, she can only guess what the course of action will be taken for her newly diagnosed breast cancer.

She asked me today how it was for me to have two close girlfriends facing cancer at the same time.

It was an interesting question...and, a difficult one to answer.

Certainly, I would prefer that neither of them had to be faced with this life-changing challenge. Oh, how I wish that we could go back to how things were just a short month or so ago...before the cancer diagnoses were made. Of course, I pray for good health for all of the people that I love.

The course of things cannot be changed, so, of course, we must look ahead with positive energy and lots of hope. And, we are....and, will continue to do so until both of them hear that they are cancer free.

While these two beautiful women will be handling their journey in their own way, I am confident that each of them will fight the good fight with grace and determination. And, if the loving support of their family and friends means anything, they will both have very positive results in the months ahead.

So, with that all being said, how do I feel right now as I struggle to answer my friend's question? Honestly, I guess that I would say that I am: a bit scared, very touched, quite vulnerable, proud to be included in their group of close friends, somewhat anxious, filled with good thoughts, and amazed at the incredible power of our sisterhood.

I know today that none of us will ever be the same again....and, in many ways, that is not a bad thing. We are growing closer in the process and learning how very much we mean to each other...and, still believing that with love all things are truly possible.

Oh, what a glorious day it is today....

(...a tree in my neighborhood that I took a picture of on my walk today)

"Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow." -Mary Jean Iron

While the leaves were falling outside....

...the girlies and I were inside finishing up our ceramic ones.

(Yes, these are made out of clay....they look real, don't they?!)

Now that they are painted, they will have to dry for a few days and then into the kiln they go! Final step: the glazing process...another visit to the kiln...and the leaves will be done...ready to adorn their Thanksgiving tables.

I have to admit that I was pretty impressed with my "non-artist" friends abilities. Of course, I do believe that we all have artistic talent inside....and with a little confidence and a free spirit...that can emerge from each and every one of us.

When I teach my adult pottery classes, I find that the most difficult part is getting the students over their fear of "not being able to do it"! Once they get started...the sky is the limit....and, no one is more surprised than the person creating the piece!

As I watched these beautiful and dear friends of mine sitting and working in my studio, I felt a sense of joy, contentment, and love. Unfortunately,the "news" that one of the girls was anticipating did come...and, it wasn't what we wanted to hear. Her news meant that the second of one of the girlies was going to be faced with the challenge of dealing with cancer.

That being said, here we were, supporting each other with our friendship...hugging each other tightly, chatting and laughing and creating something special together.

Our sisterhood grows closer with each step of our journey together...no matter what life throws our way....and, it is pretty spectacular.

"Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away."

--Dinah Maria Mulock Craik

The "students" and their teacher...

(Missing from this picture are two very special girlies....my one dear, dear friend who is courageously challenging her ovarian cancer with her incredible positive energy....and, the other who is dealing with chronic migraine headaches. Life can certainly throw things our way...but, I do believe in the incredible strength of friendships and love. As soon as they are up to it....another pottery party will have to be planned!)

What do you do on a miserably rainy day when one of your friends is anticipating a possibly stressful phone call...?

YOU GET TOGETHER AND PLAY IN CLAY!!!! : )

I taught some of the Girlies how to make some ceramic leaves to adorn their tables for Thanksgiving!

We talked, we laughed, we pressed leaves into the clay, we ate pizza and salads, we opened up some wine, we painted....and, we ended up playing a couple of games of mah jongg!

It was a wonderful day...and, truly what friendship is all about....

How lucky we all are.

There's more than one way to get to your food.....

I love these two pictures of Celia wearing her food all over her face....and reaching into the jar with her hand to get whatever is left! Yum...

What a cutie pie!

I will be seeing her in person in just 2 1/2 weeks when she comes to Bham for Thanksgiving!!!!!

Oh yeah, her mommy and daddy are coming too! : )