Awaiting Buddha

Ooh La La

2012-01-31T20:34:00.005-06:00

...also known as "Grammie does Paree!"

After months of talking about it....it is finally here: I'm leaving for Paris Thursday morning!

I am "semi" packed even though I keep taking things out and adding other things in. I found out today that the weather is going to be a bit chilly....lows 18 degrees and highs in the low 20's-30's. The keyword here is "layering"...and, that includes long underwear!

I will try and blog while there....so, hang on...it's going to be quite a ride!
xoxo

Yesterday I watched my oldest grandson, Owen, do his homework....

2012-01-16T12:32:00.002-06:00

...without leaving the comforts of my home. Watching him fill in the spaces on his Kindergarten homework (!) was quite fun. I marveled at how bright he was as he wrote his numbers on the sheet.

I also got to chat with my granddaughter, Audrey, as she ate her dinner....even getting a view of what was in her mouth as she moved in for a close-up! That was a little more than I bargained for....but, funny, nonetheless. The day before she was showing me the "princess" dress that she had on and even did a couple of swirls around the kitchen to show it off.

This is all thanks to Skype and Facetime.

I also love my chats with Celia as she sits in front of the computer and discusses her world with giggles and silliness interspersed. She also loves to show me her outfits including her newest pair of shoes....the latest ones being her bright, red Maryjanes.

When he is awake, I get to smile at Dylan as he flirts right back with me. He still isn't quite sure how Grammie gets into that little box on the screen....but, he seems to enjoy it. I imagine that he presumes that I live in there?! And, while I wasn't there for the actual first time....I did get to see some of his very first steps online.

Of course nothing takes the place of being there in person....having the opportunity to hold them in my arms and cuddle with them....sharing up close and personal moments with them....but, I am so grateful to the brilliant minds who have made this technology available to grandparents all over the world who live far away from their grandchildren.

I remember seeing futuristic scenes years ago about actually getting to see the person that one was talking to and I can recall wondering if that would ever really occur in my lifetime.
Now I wonder, can "smell-a-vision" be far behind? Or "hug-a-vision".....or.....
: )

5:00 a.m.?!?!

2012-01-14T10:36:00.001-06:00

Several weeks ago, when Dave told me that he needed to be at the airport by 5:30 in the morning to catch a flight, I smugly smiled.

"Right!'" I said, laughing.

But, he was serious....so, off we went today in the early morning darkness....as I drove him there so that he could fly home for the long weekend to check on his 90 yr. old mom.

There aren't a whole lot of cars out that time of the day.... and I must say that the lights of the city hide a lot of the not-so-pretty sites....so, it was actually a nice drive....bleary eyes and all.

When I returned home, I quickly put my pink polka dotted pj's (Dave calls me "Dottie" when I wear them!!) back on and proceeded to fall back asleep until 9:30! I was shocked in that I rarely sleep that late....but, now I should be able to go through my day with a little more clarity. : )
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So, the Paris trip is now only 19 days away! I am such a novice with this kind of travel so I am filled with a million questions. Besides the changing into my pajamas one (!), I am wondering about important things like; "How does one say 'where is the nearest bathroom' in French?" and "May I have some more croissants, please?"

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When the kids/grandkids were all here for Thanksgiving, my son, Adam, was sporting a (sort of) mustache that he was growing as part of the "Movember Men's Cancer Awareness" project. All men are asked to grow some hair above their lip for the entire month of November. This started in Australia where mustaches are known as "Mo's"...thus the name, "Movember".

Anyway, when my other son planned to have a photographer come to the house to take some family photos, Adam wasn't sure about having his photo taken while sporting this (sort of) mustache.....soooooo, one of my daughter-in-law's decided that we should all have a mustache and purchased several fake ones for the rest of the group.

This made for some interesting (and, hairy) family shots.
Enjoy!

(Jeffrey, Celia, Janet, Dylan, Audrey, Adam, Owen, Jenny--

Dave, me,and, my sister, Marsha)

(Adam and his group)

(Are we finished with these photos yet?)

"Do we change into our pajamas on the flight to France?"

2012-01-13T20:36:00.000-06:00

I asked, very seriously.

After all, I was told that we would be (trying) to fall asleep on our nine hour flight....so, I figured that we must be changing into pj's.

Not true....I quickly learned.

Well, it might have made for an interesting flight....don't ya think?
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"I can see clearly now....."

Yep. I had my windows cleaned inside and out the other day. Other than the fact that the workers did not speak much English, they did a very good job. I can't remember the last time that I had this done!
They had to remove the storm windows, clean them, and then put everything back in place. It was hard work....but the results were well worth the expense.
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"Roll Tide" seemed to be the phrase of the day this past week when Alabama played LSU for the football national title.

Now, I am not saying that I live in the "Football Capital" of the world....but, everywhere I went, the color red was being displayed...on clothing, on cars....etc. etc.

Everyone that you passed on the street or in stores was decked out in "Alabama attire"...and, of course, one did not walk by someone without muttering "Roll Tide!" followed by a fist pump.

Luckily, no one knew that I was actually a University of Florida alum.

(Go Gators?)
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We are having a bit of a cold spell right now....and, I love it. There is something so invigorating about the crisp air that comes with the cold fronts heading down from the north.

Unfortunately, my son and family in Minnesota are having temps in the single digits.

Not so invigorating for them. : O
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Have a nice weekend, all.....and, stay warm.

Life 101

2012-01-06T09:29:00.000-06:00

The older I get, the more that I am reminded that I must appreciate every single moment....because things can change at any time...and, lately they have been.

Without recounting all of the difficult and challenging things that have come to be, I will say that all of them involve health issues....not with me, but with people I love....including a "way too quick" loss of a friend. The latter has left a pall over much of my community....and, hardly a day goes by that her name is not mentioned and that her family is not thought of.

My unusually upbeat Mom has had to deal with loss at the home several times already....most recently, the sudden, and unexpected, passing of a dear friend who was one of the "group" that eat together every day....and, this stress and anxiety put her in the hospital for tests all day yesterday. Thank God, she tested out fine and is back home and doing well today.

Dave's 90 year old mom is also going through her own challenges right now ....and dealing with it long distance has been extremely difficult on him.

So, the fact is that "Life Happens". The question is, how do we get through these times and remain positive and joyous? How do we not feel the weight of the sadness on us daily while we go about our usual routines?

I guess that we must learn to compartmentalize....to take the things that concern us and make us sad and allow ourselves to grieve....but, to also find a way to heal and look at all of the wonderful things that come our way. We can carry the memories that make us smile and reach for them when we are at our lowest.
None of this is easy, but a necessary part of moving on with our lives....

As we age, we find that our friendships become even more important than every before. A quick call to a dear friend who listens to my deepest feelings and allows me to talk about it certainly helps to remind me that I am not alone on this journey.

Family, of course, is the antidote to so much of life's trials. A quick Skype with my adorable grandchildren can bring me right back to gratefulness for what I have instead of what I have lost.

With that in mind, I think that I am going to end this very introspective (sorry) post with some recent joyous photos of my four loves....I hope that they put a smile on your face, too.

xoxo
Grammie

Having my teeth brushed with cookie dough?

2012-01-05T12:12:00.003-06:00

Not a typo....I promise.

I went for my 6 month dental cleaning appointment yesterday. When the hygienist began to "polish" my teeth at the end....I couldn't believe the taste in my mouth from the toothpaste she was using on me.

"At sss isss (what is this) ",I mumbled with a mouth full of this sweet tasting stuff that was pretty awful.

"Isn't it great? she answered enthusiastically, "it is our new cookie dough flavored toothpaste! I had to choose between this one and the chocolate chip cookie flavor."

You have got to be kidding me....I couldn't wait to get this taste out of my mouth.

What happened to good ole minty toothpaste?

Blech....

2012

2011-12-31T14:57:00.001-06:00

This about sums it up...

Wishing all of my fellow bloggers a "memorable" New Year's Eve and an extraordinarily joyous and healthy and peaceful 2012.

xoxo
Grammie

Did you ever read the book....

2011-12-09T20:18:00.001-06:00

Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day ?

It was one of my kid's very favorite books.

Well, today proved to be "Grammie and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day"!

I'm still not feeling well, had a bit of an unsettling conversation on the phone earlier, AND, to top it all off....my bathroom flooded (AGAIN) downstairs!!!

Fifty sopping wet towels later....and an expensive call to a late night plumber....and, we will hopefully find out the cause of this mess.

AAAACK!

I should have known it would hit me sooner or later...

2011-12-08T21:02:00.001-06:00

Coughing. Sneezing. Scratchy throat. Tiredness. Watery eyes. General malaise.

Many of my friends and much of the community have come down with these miserable symptoms....so, I knew that my time would come.

And, it has.

Ah-choo... : (

It seemed like a good idea at the time...

2011-12-06T12:46:00.001-06:00

When the cold rain stopped this morning, I decided to "kill two birds with one stone" and do my walk and get to the grocery store in one fell swoop.

I grabbed two of my "environmentally friendly" Publix bags, put in a bottled water, my cell phone and, the all important credit card and was on my way.

The store is only a little over 2 miles both ways from my home....and, I have done this before....so I was very comfortable with it.

My neighbor passed me in his car and tried to talk me into letting him drive me to the store. "No, thanks," I replied, "this is my morning exercise!".

About halfway there, a friend pulled over, asked me if I needed a ride....when I said "no" she pulled into a driveway and we had a nice chat for a while....After that, I reached into one of the bags, pulled out my cell phone, and made a call to Mom.

Arriving at Publix, I went to the aisles that had the few things that I needed and headed to the check-out.
Of course, I got a few more things than I thought I would....so, as the gal began to check out my groceries, I became a little worried about carrying all of this stuff home.

Well, it wasn't really an issue, because when I went to get my credit card out....it wasn't there!!!! What?!?!
I was positive that it was in there when I left the house. A search of the store ensued by me and the bagger.
No luck.

So, I left the groceries there and headed back home to trace my steps and see if I could find my missing credit card....or, at the very least, go home, get money and head back to the store in my car.

Aha! About halfway between the store and my house, I found it lying on the wet sidewalk! I realized that I had probably dropped it when I reached in for my phone...

Back to the grocery I went...eager to pay for my "saved" groceries and get this whole thing over with.

Finally, lugging my (very) heavy bags, I began the trek home again. At this point, I was quite tired and was hopeful that I would now get an offer for a ride home.

It was not to be.

Like I said, it seemed like a good idea at the time.... : O

There was more than one turkey neck for T'giving!

2011-12-03T12:01:00.001-06:00

Ugh.

I have inherited (always blame genetics!) the beginnings of, for lack of a better description, what I call a "turkey neck".

It is showing up more and more these days and is especially prominent in candid photos. Oh, how I ahbor those photos taken when I am not aware of it.

Candid shots do not give me enough time to "get into position". By that I mean pulling my head slightly upwards and out to stretch the area under my chin. When standing, I can also lean a bit forward....but, have found that this can look awkward in group shots! I have also been told that one can press the tongue up to the top of your mouth to tighten the neck area.

But, in actuality, the very best thing to do is to have the photographer get above you....WAY above you when taking the picture. It is amazing to see the difference that this can make.

For example, with my ~~begging~~ prompting, my dear daughter-in-law actually stood up on a stool to take this photo of me and my sons.

Ah.....another thing to add to the joys of aging!!

Dried peas, cars, doll shoes, and wooden pieces...

2011-12-02T15:08:00.001-06:00

As I continue to clean up the house since the " Grandchildren Invasion" : ) I am finding interesting things in unseen places.

Pushing the mop under a cabinet in the great room, a little toy car came sliding out.

While vacuuming, I came upon a multitude of dried peas....and, even a few "petrified" carrot cubes...
Several wooden pieces from the "dress up the wooden doll" kits were treasures waiting to be found.

Speaking of dolls....I have now collected several sets of "Barbie" shoes. Not sure what to do with them....but, they are awfully cute!

All of these remnants brought a smile to my face as I continue to think about the wonderful time I had with the kiddos in my home for Thanksgiving....and these beautiful faces that I love so much were well worth the occasional surprises found on the floor... : ]

All hooked up for the next 24 hours!?!

2011-11-30T21:10:00.001-06:00

My cardiologist thinks that I might have "white coat hypertension" where my blood pressure is only high when a doctor is taking it. Because of that, he feels that I might be actually taking more bp medicine than I should. Nothing would please me more than to take less meds...and, I am hopeful that this will be the case.

So, since 9:30 this morning I have been wearing a 24 hr. bp machine. This basically is a bp cuff that stays on my arm always and tubing that goes from the cuff to a box that is tethered around my waist with a strap.
Every twenty-five minutes or so the machine is activated and the cuff tightens around my arm and my bp is taken and recorded. I am forewarned of this by a beeping sound that comes from the box around my waist.

Not only have I had this on all day, but I must sleep with it all night. After midnight the time span will change to every hour. I cannot imagine getting much sleep as the squeezing of the cuff is quite uncomfortable and my arm has gotten very sore. Then there is the lovely beeping sound that will occur every hour.

"Can I take something to help me sleep through all of this?" I asked the nurse today. Of course the answer was a definite "no" in that it might affect my pressure reading.

...should be an interesting night. : O

I was doing okay until I began to eat the rest of the M & M's....

2011-11-29T08:00:00.001-06:00

(The empty M & M jar....)

The family is gone.
The house is quiet.
The sheets and towels are washed and put away.
Toys are stored in the attic until next time.
The card games are back in the closet.
Borrowed baby items are being returned.
Floors are vacuumed and mopped.
Bags of garbage are put out.
The last remnants of turkey are eaten.
Missing the kids and grandkids....
....and I find myself eating way too many M & M's to fill the empty space...

*groan*

There's only one thing that can get me out of this "funk" right now....

2011-11-19T21:22:00.001-06:00

....and, that is KIDS and GRANDKIDS!!!!!! : )

The first of the gang will be arriving in about 30 minutes and I can't wait!!!! They left 20 degrees and snowy Minneapolis tonight and will be pleased to "thaw" out here in mild Birmingham where temps are hovering around 56 degrees.

I know that they will be sleepy (they land at 10 p.m.!) but, hopefully I can sneak a couple of good hugs in before they head to bed....

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....I needed this.

Making sense out of confusion...

2011-11-18T07:29:00.001-06:00

Without even getting out of bed this morning, I grabbed my iPad and immediately went to the obituary page online.

I looked in disbelief as a beautiful picture of my friend popped up on the screen. "This is real..." I muttered to myself, as I read through the short synopsis of her life...

Being out of town and hearing the horrific news, the nightmarish past days...the prayer services...the complete shock of seeing my usually ebullient friend lying silently in a hospital bed...the stories of friendships past and present being told...feeling hopeful that she would make it through this sudden illness...and then, the "telling" MRI letting us know the grim news.

Feeling helpless while trying to make sense of a life taken too soon and so suddenly.

Rest in peace, dear Gail.

You are loved....and you will be missed.

I am still not believing that this is real....

2011-11-17T21:24:00.001-06:00

....my friend Gail passed away this morning after being in a coma for the past week and a half from spinal meningitis.

It still feels surreal and so very sad.

: (

Four girls and a Mom....

2011-11-12T16:18:00.001-06:00

(Marsha, Me, Sherri, Karen, and Mom)

What a wonderful five days I just had with my family. My three sisters and I planned a surprise 89th birthday celebration for Mom down in Florida. It was joyous to see her surrounded by all of the people in her life....and, to see how beloved she is.

By the time that I got ready to fly home we had lit candles on more than three different cakes and sung "Happy Birthday" at least that many times!

We were all stuffed and pooped, but smiling.... : )

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Smiling, that is, until I returned back home....

Unfortunately, while I was away this past week, I received some tragic news about a local girlfriend of mine.

It seems that what started as a sinus infection ended up becoming spinal meningitis....the bacterial kind, which is the most dangerous type to have. Once she got to the emergency room, she was in a coma....and, today, nine days later.....she remains that way.

It was surreal as I walked into her room in the intensive care unit with her husband. This friend is generally very talkative and colorful....and, there she was....silent. I spoke to her and stroked her arm, hoping that she might miraculously open her eyes and smile. Of course, nothing of the kind happened, and I left there with a heavy heart.

So, now it is a horrific waiting game for my friend's family as they sit vigil at the hospital hoping and praying for her to come out of the coma and be alright. I can't even begin to imagine how very difficult this must be for them all...

The friends have organized a weekly prayer group as well as a system of bringing food to the family. There is such a feeling of helplessness, that anything that we can do seems to help us get through this time.

If you have an extra moment during your day, please say a prayer for my friend, Gail.

Thanks...

Back again?

2011-10-14T07:57:00.001-05:00

It is hard to stay away from posting....even though I haven't had much time to just sit and type my thoughts out lately....Today seems like a "calmer" day.....so, I think that I will go ahead and write!

One question that I have for myself is; "Why aren't I finding enough time to do all of the things that I love?"

I'm not sure that I can actually answer that definitively as I try to figure it all out....but, I do know that there just never seems to be enough hours (or energy!!) in a day lately.

Magazines and other reading materials are continuing to pile up. If it is real quiet I can hear them calling out; "Read me! Read me!".

My desk in the office is overrun with papers, papers, and more papers. I have my bin where I place "all- things-important-enough-to-not-throw-out" but to read later. And, then there is the large plastic box that I keep in the hallway closet that is filled to the top with "important-stuff-that-I-might-need-for-tax-purposes".
Finally, there are the little piles that line the width and length of my rather large desk area. Even my printer has a stack of printed items awaiting my perusal.

Down in the dungeon (pottery studio) I have several bags of clay waiting to be created into something interesting....as well as many dried pieces awaiting my painting skills.

My closet is still filled with many of my summer things as I stuffed some fall and winter wear in there, but haven't removed all traces of the lightweight clothing.

Dust is forming on all surfaces around the house as my cleaning efforts have also gone by the wayside. When it gets really bad, I grab a roll of paper towels and some Windex and go to town....but not often enough, I guess. And, of course, the darn dust always seems to return shortly after it has been cleaned.

Some of my computer games have even been ignored. Horrors! (ha ha) I know that my turns on "Hanging With Friends" and "Words With Friends" are way overdue. If I don't take my turn soon, the "friends" may give up on me!

So, here I sit.....lamenting my lack of time organization.....but, the sun is out, it is a beautiful Friday morning....and I am going to put on my shoes and take a nice, long walk instead of dealing with all of the above for right now.....

*sigh*

M.I.A.?

2011-10-08T21:34:00.001-05:00

It seems that my blogging has taken a back seat to the rest of the craziness that is my life lately.

I miss the daily recounting of what is going on....but, haven't seemed to be available to sit and post like I used to.

No special reason or excuse....but, wanted to let any of you who actually read my thoughts (!) that I will still be blogging....but, it will be erratic at best.

So, please hang in there with me and forgive me for these lapses as they occur.

I shall return. : )

xoxo

DailyGood: The Emerging Global Mind, by Tiffany Shlain

2011-10-06T09:46:00.000-05:00

DailyGood: The Emerging Global Mind, by Tiffany Shlain

Loved these!!

2011-09-29T20:54:00.000-05:00

Signs of the times....

Bitten

2011-09-26T20:53:00.001-05:00

Sometime during the cutting down of the tree that fell in my backyard, some chigger bugs decided to set up housekeeping in my skin.

Aaagh!

Red spots popping out all over....itching, itching, itching....and, even some achy joints..... are the results of these little red bugs obviouusly found in my wooded back yard.

Dave was bitten, too.....but, his body didn't react nearly as much as mine. Aren't I lucky?!

I have applied this gooey, sticky stuff on the spots....I have sprayed with products that promise to rid the body of these critters....however, nothing is really giving me the relief that I seek.

So, I called my doctor this afternoon....let her take a look at my bumps....and got a steroid shot while there.

I asked if there were any side effects from the shot....she laughed and said that I might feel energized tonight.

So far I have baked six dozen cookies for a party coming up this Friday and I am still raring to go....looking around the house for things to do.

But, at least the itching has calmed down a bit.

: O

My grandson, Dylan,...is quite a SWINGER!

2011-09-21T18:47:00.000-05:00

Missing this joy!!
xoxo

Now this is what I call....

2011-09-20T22:05:00.000-05:00

...enjoying your cupcake!!

Good to the last bite, right Celia? : )

I spent thirty minutes in a "tunnel" today....

2011-09-14T19:03:00.001-05:00

....on my stomach with my head down in a headrest and not moving at all.

Sounds pleasant, eh?

Well, it was quite interesting for sure.

Today I went for a breast MRI. Even though my last mammogram was fine, it was recommended to me that I have an MRI due to: family history and dense breasts.

I took that recommendation to my intern who sent me to a surgeon who specializes in breast cancer who sent me to a "high risk breast cancer specialist".

Was I at high risk? Not really according to her models....however, her models did not include breast density and mine were categorized as 75% dense. The density makes the mammograms more difficult to read and sometimes misses cancerous spots. The MRI however, is a much clearer picture that takes over 11,000 pictures that are quite precise. Density is no match for the breast MRI.

So, after much deliberation, I decided to go ahead and do it. Insurance would pay the bulk of it and I would be left with having to pay under $500. Since yesterday was my birthday, I decided to give myself the gift of up-to-date technology and a clear mind.

Once at the hospital, I was told to remove all clothing from the waist up. Also, all jewelry was to be removed as well as any other metals.

An IV was inserted into my arm. This was the dye that would help the technician view the pictures.

Heavy, old-fashioned headsets were put on me as I laid down on the platform that would roll me into the "tunnel" where the MRI would take place. The headsets were a necessity in that the MRI noises were going to be quite loud...."like a jackhammer" the technician told me. I was then allowed to choose a radio station to listen to while the testing was going on. I chose "easy listening" thinking that it would relax me?

Once the testing began, the noise muffled the radio....so, I heard very little.

It was interesting being in the tunnel....staying perfectly still with my eyes closed and my head and breasts down in a padded section. I found myself acutely aware of my breathing. I got very thirsty and I was concerned that I might need to use the restroom before the half hour test was completed. I had already been told that if I moved the whole test would need to be started over. I wasn't about to move.

After a third of the test was completed, the technician checked on me through the headset. "I'm ready for the wine" I laughingly told her. I think that she laughed too.

Two thirds later, she again asked how I was doing....as well as several minutes before the test was over. "I am now letting the 'contrast material' to enter into your IV", she said casually. "Oh boy", I responded....privately relieved that we were nearing the end.

My attitude in going into this diagnostic test was that I was so fortunate to have this technology available...and, hopefully, they would not find anything of concern...but, if they did....it would probably be in the very early stages.

I was told that the radiologist would read my pictures and that I would be notified in two or three days.

You can imagine my surprise (and delight) when my Internist's nurse called me later this afternoon to let me know that my images were all clear....nothing to worry about.

....best birthday present that I ever gave myself. : )

This has been an amazing day....

2011-09-13T16:49:00.000-05:00

Even as I face turning 63 (!!) today, my heart is so filled with joy.

Family and friends have filled my Facebook page with well wishes (...there is nothing like a "Facebook Birthday"!)...my phone has not stopped ringing with wonderful messages and birthday songs being sung (...a little out of tune....but special nonetheless!).....cards, gifts, etc. etc. It is all a bit overwhelming, but so lovely.

Lunch with some of the Girlies at a fancy schmancy restaurant was delightful as we celebrated together....laughing in between bites of delicious food.

Tonight, Dave will be coming over with some take-out Chinese food which was my request when asked. No cooking-no dishes....aaaah! And, we have plans to eat out at a fabulous seafood restaurant on Saturday night to continue the celebration.

As if this wasn't all enough....two of my dear, dear friends handed me a homemade card telling me that my present this year was....(deep breath here!) that they were taking me to Paris with them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Unbelievable. I am still in a bit of shock over the whole thing....The husband has meetings there in February and they have invited me to go along. I have never been... and to say that I am excited would be the biggest understatement of the year! The Eiffel Tower, the art, the food, the ambiance....the WINE! Oh my....it is still quite surreal. How did I get so lucky to have friends like I do?
I may need to purchase a beret and a "How to Speak French" book soon. : )

What a great birthday.

I am so blessed.

"Where were you on 9/11/2001?"

2011-09-11T16:20:00.004-05:00

It is very difficult to revisit those days for so many reasons...

First and foremost was the horrific devastation and loss of life that my country was experiencing. I was a proud American and I watched my wonderful country being attacked by individuals who were willing to die in the process of killing others. Senseless! How can one wrap their mind around such hatred? My naivete and my rose-colored glasses were shattered.

Like so many other people, I remember sitting and watching this unbelievable story unfold in my living room in front of my television. I probably sat transfixed for most of the day as I could not seem to do anything else and found myself unable to walk away from the tv. I had to decide later whether this new decade of technology where we could view wars, etc.etc. as they were happening was a good thing or not? Having instant access to the world we live in carries its difficulties for sure. But, nonetheless, these 9/11 attacks were being recorded and sent via the airways to our homes in real time whether we liked it or not.

I so vividly recall the faces. The horror stricken looks on the people as they ran from the collapsing buildings....their faces covered with white and gray ash, making them look almost ghost like.

I sat wondering how anyone could survive this tragedy which was unlike anything that I had ever known in my lifetime. I remember feeling so shocked and alone and heartbroken.

Like the World Trade Tower buildings, my own personal life was crumbling around me, too. Just a few days before, I was in conversations with my then husband of 31 years about ending our marriage. I was so frightened for what lie ahead for us. I was so alone in my thoughts and fears. Without any family living nearby, I relied on a handful of friends to help me get through those dark days.

My ex was working on that 11th day of September in Montgomery, AL. and he would not be coming home until the next day. Even as the world was seemingly falling apart, he was going to continue with his mediation until it was finished. I was alone in every sense of the word.

Today, 10 years after that day, I can still remember those feelings like they were yesterday...

As time went by, I read the heroic stories of people who were trapped in those buildings....or in the Pentagon....or on the four airplane flights that were used as such cruel and destructive weapons. I have watched stories of the survivors and how they have managed to move on with their lives in spite of what occurred. I have cried tears as I listened to the family's struggles as they mourned the loss of loved ones.

But, the human spirit is an amazing thing. When things are at their very lowest, we dig deep down inside and seem to be able to find the strength to go on. One step at a time.....one day at a time.

So, here I sit, ten years after my divorce.

I, too, have had to reach into places in my head and heart that I did not think were possible to reach. I have grown so much. I have learned to forgive, but not forget. I have learned that I am capable of doing so much more on my own than I ever thought I could. I have cried tears until I no longer could. I have let go of anger. In doing this, I have found countless joys along the way....I have been enriched by my children and precious grandchildren....and amazed by the love of family and dear friends.

I have rebuilt my life one little step at a time....and, like the rest of the world, I am hopeful for a future filled with love, joy, and, most of all, peace. God-willing, my grandchildren will never have to observe anything like what occurred to my country 10 years ago.

My rose-colored glasses are back on.....I have peace in my heart....and, I wish that for all of you, today and always.

Oh, where to start???

2011-09-10T14:52:00.001-05:00

Back home from four fun days in Minneapolis.....so hard to leave these faces:

The theme of Owen's little birthday celebration was Rock N' Ribs. We all dressed up like "Rockers" and then Papa Dave grilled some of his famous ribs with help from Owen and Audrey.

If you promise not to laugh, I will share these pictures of all of us dressed up:

Yes, that is Grammie and Rocker Dave with a little help from a wig! Scary, eh?

Adam and Jenny

and, my talented daughter-in-law's guitar cake for Owen! It tasted as good as it looked!

The rib makers in their personalized aprons made by Grammie!

We are a little bit of a "crazy" family....but, we always have such fun together!!
xoxo
a smiling Grammie

Happy 3rd Birthday Celia!

2011-09-09T12:04:00.002-05:00

My precious curly-haired granddaughter turns three years old today!

She is full of giggles and love.....and, I miss her so very much.

Sending tons of hugs and kisses your way, Celia.

I love you,

Grammie

Hmmmmm.....

2011-09-02T19:26:00.002-05:00

This was my daily email inspiration for today.

It made me laugh.

It sounds lovely....but, who can really exist without some stress in their life?

Not me.

That's for sure...

Can you?

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Aside from this....I am awakening at 5 a.m. tomorrow morning to catch an early flight to Minneapolis to hug, love, and spoil two little cutie pies!

: )

FIVE??!?!!!

2011-09-01T14:00:00.000-05:00

Happy 5th Birthday my sweet Owen!!

I can't wait to say it in person on Saturday!

I love you so very much,

Grammie : )

As I walked in my neighborhood this morning....

2011-08-29T23:09:00.001-05:00

....I watched two little boys walking together ahead of their mother who was with a third child. Suddenly, the youngest one turned around, looked back at his mom, and then took her hand in his. It was so sweet to watch them as they happily walked to school together.

Once I caught up with them, I introduced myself and got into a conversation with the mom, Sarah. She and her family had just moved into a home near me. She said that she walks her three boys to school every day.

I spoke with the boys asking them about their teachers, etc. Although a bit shy at first, they did begin to share some thoughts with me about school. The youngest was in kindergarten...and he was the one I watched holding his mom's hand tightly the entire time.

Suddenly, my mind went back to a time 32 years ago (how can that be?) when I took my oldest son to the very same school. I can recall that feeling as I would drive him up to the circular drive at the back of the school and watch as he walked away and into the building alone. I still get a little lump in my throat thinking about it!

Back then the kids didn't use backpacks and instead had to lug handfulls of books in their little arms. This sometimes meant that things went flying as they got out of the cars. It seems so much easier for the kids now...

Three years later I sent my youngest off to the same school and got the same lump in my throat. But, it was nice having them in the same place for a few years. Comforting in a way.

Of course, it wasn't long before I was joining carpools as my oldest began to attend the Junior High. In a blink of an eye that changed to high school and then college wasn't far behind. I miss watching my two boys journey through school every day. I loved every minute of being a mom when they were still at home.

Now, they are both living far away in two different cities watching their own children go to school. As their children grow, I wish them the same joys that they gave to me.

It is such a mixture of emotions watching our children grow and go out on their own. I feel such a loss not having them around all the time....but, so much pride and happiness to see them flourishing as young adults.

~All of this reminiscing just from seeing three little boys on their way to school this morning, wishing that I could have stopped things from moving so quickly back then.... for just a while.... and yearning for that time so long ago....

As I opened the door....there stood my new friend...smiling, and holding a warm Challah in her hands...

2011-08-27T13:09:00.000-05:00

Sometimes we are lucky enough to have special people come into our lives when we least expect it. That is the case with Miriam...

She signed up for one of my adult pottery classes and we became instant friends.

This interesting woman continues to fascinate me. She and her husband are the proud parents of 9 (yes, 9!) beautiful children ranging in age from 2-18. She seems to be able to lovingly handle this large crew in such a gentle way. She would receive many cell phone calls during the pottery class and I couldn't help but listen to her as she calmly handled each child's needs.

Miriam and her family are Orthodox Jews. This is the most traditional stream of Judaism."Orthodox Jews are very unique in their lifestyle. They are very family oriented and lead warm and loving large families. Honoring parents and devotion for their children's humble and honest upbringing is a core Orthodox Judaism belief."

From sundown on Friday evening to sundown on Saturday night, the Sabbath is observed. Phones, television, and, even lights are turned off. If they go to their house of worship they will walk... as driving is not allowed on the Sabbath.

Miriam's husband is the Rabbi of the local Chabad House. Many wonderful and inspiring events and programs take place there throughout the year.

So, what is so unusual about this new friendship? Well, even though I am Jewish, I am part of the Reform stream of Judaism. This is the most contemporary and progressive of the three sects. Much of our Temple Services are done in English with a small portion of prayers done in Hebrew. I do not take part in many of the strict observances that Miriam and her family do.

In fact, my whole feeling about organized religion is somewhat challenging. I find that religion can be so divisive. I believe that individual spirituality and goodness is a much more important aspect of my religious life. I am proud to be Jewish and I certainly celebrate the holidays....but, much of my prayer is done personally and privately on my own.

I so look forward to opening up my mind and heart as I get to know more about Miriam and her beliefs. We have already planned to get together and exchange thoughts and ideas that we each have. I have many questions about Orthodox Jewry that I plan on asking Miriam....and, I know that she will answer me without any judgement on her part.

This is the second time that she has come to my door to wish me a good Shabbas and to bring me one of her homemade (and delicious!) braided challah breads. In my desire to do something special and meaningful for her, I have begun to create a Sabbath challah tray out of clay for her family to use on Friday nights.

I can't wait to be able to present it to this beautiful and special new friend...

Silent Treatment

2011-08-26T07:36:00.002-05:00

I love the commercial that is presently airing for a new sitcom.

The female lead is giving advice to all women out there about what to do when they get in an argument with their significant other....and, they are feeling angry inside.

"Dont give them the silent treatment!" she admonishes, "That is not punishment to a man..."

It then shows the man sitting there happily watching television as she sits quietly....not talking.

She suggests that, instead, we should talk on and on about anything and everything that they probably have no desire to discuss, much less hear.

I "silently" laugh inside at the truth of this.

Shhhh....don't tell the men. : )

Tornadoes, Earthquakes and Hurricanes...oh my!

2011-08-25T22:09:00.002-05:00

Craziness abounds as Mother Nature continues to amaze, frighten, and confuse us.

It is difficult to fathom the destructive forces of nature lately. It certainly is gaining respect as a force to be reckoned with and not to be taken lightly!

My concerns for Florida and Hurricane Irene...where some of my family lives.....have now changed to the Eastern seaboard to the north of them. I am hopeful that Irene will lose some of it's power as it continues to make it's way up the coast. With one son and his family in D.C., you can bet that I will be keeping an eye on things in the next few days!

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While taking my morning walk today, I came upon a city employee marking some lines on our newly-paved road.

We exchanged "hello's" and then he commented; "This is a lovely neighborhood, but the flying bugs here are terrible. It must be because of all of the trees in this area."

Thinking about the high tax rates we pay to live in this beautiful part of the city, I replied, "Oh, yeah....we pay extra for the bugs!"

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A week from Saturday I will be heading up north to Minnesota to spend a few days with Adam, Jenny, Owen and Audrey. I cannot wait to get my arms around all of them! It has been waaay too long....

We will have a small celebration for Owen as he turns 5 while I am there. He decided that he wanted his birthday theme to be "rock star". So, it looks like I will be adding some fun, colorful hair extensions to my hair....and maybe getting a temporary tattoo or two. Now if I can just find my old black leather pants....

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My pottery classes are over for now so I am taking a "breather" for a few weeks before starting some new pre-holiday classes. This will give me a chance to begin to build up my own inventory of pieces before the holiday season occurs....I'm looking forward to getting creative again and getting my hands in that clay!

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Ten o'clock here and my bed is calling...

The finished "Ugly Jugs"

2011-08-18T09:23:00.005-05:00

Can you pick out the one that is mine from the jugs done by my 7 year old students?

I know, I know.....Mine looks like Howdy Doody and Mr. Potato Head's love child!
And, what is with the freckles?!?!

: O

Just a comment about comments....

2011-08-12T21:03:00.001-05:00

I just wanted to do a little post about the comments that people sometimes leave on my blog.

I so appreciate knowing that someone out there is reading my posts....and the comments verify that.

Even though my "site summary" shows 12-40 readers a day, I seldom get more than one or two comments at any given time. That is okay with me in that I read several blogs a day and very rarely have time to comment. But, that is not to say that I don't enjoy reading the posts. I do.

So to Granny Annie and Susan Adcox I want to say a huge THANK YOU so much for taking the time to leave me messages after visiting my blog!!!

Your comments make me smile and feel good knowing that someone is actually out there in Bloggerville.
: )

"Are you old?" one of my seven year old students asked yesterday morning during class.

2011-08-11T17:26:00.003-05:00

"Yes, I am," I honestly answered.

"How old?" he continued.

"Why don't you guess?" I replied.

"35?" was his answer.

"Older," I said, now smiling at his 7 year old innocence.

"36?"....he kept on.

"Yes!" I exclaimed...."exactly right".

: )

"Let me see the ugliest face that you can make!" I said....

2011-08-08T19:17:00.003-05:00

....to the three 7 and 8 year old boys who were attending my children's summer pottery class.

I watched as they contorted their faces....stuck their fingers in their noses.....crossed their eyes and stuck out their tongues. One of the boys could actually make one eye look up while the other looked down. (Ew)

I then began to tell them the story of folk art pottery ugly face jugs.

These jugs first started appearing in the United States around the late 1700's....mostly in the Southern states.

There are a variety of stories about the origins of these jugs and what the ugly face was to signify. They were thought to have been used by slaves to fend off evil spirits and could even be found as grave markers.

Later on, these jugs were used to keep children away from the moonshine that was stored in them. It was hoped that the scary face would dissuade them from taking a sip of the contents.

So, they got started making coils that wrapped around and around to form the jug. Then they had to smooth the coils so that they blended together to make an even surface.This is a slow process, but the boys were surprisingly patient. Once the jug was formed to their satisfaction, they began to stick on the facial features....

Here are their final products prior to painting and firing:

(Interesting, eh?)

Mine actually came out looking more like......

MR. POTATO HEAD!!!

: )

As I walked outside to get the morning paper....

2011-08-06T09:59:00.005-05:00

.....I took a deep breath and appreciated the early morning peace and quiet. Other than a few birds singing and a gentle wind blowing....there really wasn't much going on.

I went back inside my house and made myself a whole wheat bagel spread with delicious almond butter and strawberry preserves. I sat and read the paper while sipping on a tall glass of chilled orange juice.

Sitting at my kitchen bar area, I glanced outside at my beautiful backyard with appreciation. A couple of hummingbirds were "fighting" over who would get a sip of the fresh new sugar water that I had put out yesterday.

I watered a few of my inside plants that were beginning to ask for water by beginning to wilt slightly.

I am looking forward to picking Dave up from the airport later this afternoon....cooking up some homemade crab cakes to be enjoyed while sipping a glass of red wine. The wine was dropped off yesterday by my dear friend, Gary, who told me that he wanted to share his newest bargain "find" of a really great wine. : )

Going down to my kiln with a bit of trepidation, I opened the still warm lid to discover that all of my student's treasures were intact. I couldn't help but smile as I unloaded each piece and marveled at what good work they had done....especially for beginners. I'm looking forward to being able to hand over the finished pieces to them on Tuesday night!

My iphone let me know that it was my turn to solve a word puzzle game that I am in the process of playing with my two sons.

And, so, the day begins.

As always, it is the simple pleasures in life that I love the most.

Where have the days gone?

2011-08-05T17:53:00.001-05:00

To all of my faithful reader (s?) out there....sorry that I haven't been posting.

I am trying to think about exactly what I have been doing these last few days that has kept me away from my blogging...

Here's what I have come up with:
1.) Preparing for pottery classes
2.) Teaching pottery classes
3.) Firing pottery pieces and praying that none of the student's work blows up in the kiln! (so far, so good)
4.) Taking care of piled up paper work, bills and other such nonsense.
5.) Doing some organizing. (very little)
6.) Trying not to watch the news.
7.) Eating more than I should.
8.) Baking a little....and, then eating what I have baked of course.
9.) Working on getting my greenish pool water back to a sparkling blue.
10.) Doctor appointments.
11.) Mammogram.
12.) Bone density test.
13.) Teeth cleaning.
14.) Missing my family, my kids, my grandkids, and Dave, who is visiting with his family.
15.) Catching up with tv shows on my DVR.
16.) Playing "Words with Friends" and "Hanging with Friends" with family and friends on my iPad.
17.) Walking on my treadmill since the heat index here is hovering in the 100 degree mark.
18.) Bemoaning the fact that it is already August when I hardly noticed July come and go...
19.) Realizing how sad the above list is....and, that I actually have no excuse for not keeping up with my blog.
: )

Sunrise at 5:15 a.m.

2011-07-30T18:02:00.002-05:00

I awoke to the song "Soul Sister" blaring from my iphone before 5 o'clock this morning. I wanted nothing more than to stay in bed for two or three more hours....but, I was taking Dave to the airport today to catch an early flight to visit his mom.....so, I had to get moving.

I washed the sleep from my eyes....threw on some clothes....and, we were off.

Little did I know about the awesome early morning beauty that would await me on my drive back home.

As I awkwardly tried to snap some photos of the morning sky with my phone, I began to feel so uplifted. This sunrise was so lovely....filled with a variety of colors....and, holding so much promise for the upcoming day. In my tiredness I paused to reflect on the magnificence of nature....and how I sometimes forget to really pay attention to this gift that is given to us freely each and every morning.

Of course, I went right back to bed when I got home....but, I had a good feeling inside and a new appreciation for being alive.

"Watching a sunrise, we open ourselves up to the beauty that nature creates, knowing it will never repeat itself just like this again." ~ Jake Rajs

Part 2 in my quest to lighten up my life...

2011-07-26T10:37:00.003-05:00

Interestingly, I found this little bit of advice online this morning. It goes along with my post yesterday and gives me even more incentive to follow my "plan".

Stop Taking Yourself So Seriously

Turns out, laughter may be one of the best protectors of your heart. According to a study presented at a meeting of the American Heart Association, people who laughed less were more likely to have heart disease than those who knew how to let out a good chuckle. Being able to find amusement in life's strange twists and turns helps you put things in proper perspective.

Joke time:

Woman sitting at home on the veranda with her husband and she says: "I love you."

He asks: "Is that you or the wine talking?"

She replies: "It's me ............... talking to the wine."

Lighten up, people!

2011-07-25T17:15:00.005-05:00

"Laughter is a gift everyone should open." Allen Klein

I am in a new phase of life.

I am planning on laughing more often.

Enough with all of the seriousness around us. I feel bombarded with the news of shootings, bombings, hatred, financial stresses, government issues, etc. etc. etc. I have an ipad, and iphone and a television with news 24/7 as well as 800+ channels to watch anything and everything that I desire.

I want to lighten up and save the stress and worry for the really serious things that may come my way.

The rest?.....I want to laugh my way through them.

So here is a joke that I received in an email the other day.....have a laugh on me!

A fifteen year old Amish boy and his father were in a mall.They were amazed by almost everything they saw, but especially by two shiny, silver walls that could move apart and then slide back together again.

The boy asked, 'What is this Father?'
The father (never having seen an elevator) responded, 'Son, I have never seen anything like this in my life, I don't know what it is.'

While the boy and his father were watching with amazement, a very large, elderly lady in a wheel chair moved up to the moving walls and pressed a button. The walls opened, and the lady rolled between them into a small room. The walls closed and the boy and his father watched the small numbers above the walls light up sequentially.
They continued to watch until it reached the last number… and then the numbers began to light in the reverse order.

Finally the walls opened up again and a gorgeous 24-year-old blond stepped out.

The father, not taking his eyes off the young woman, said quietly to his son.....

'Go get your Mother'
: )

Morning walk observations....

2011-07-21T09:08:00.002-05:00

(I actually began this the other day.....but, couldn't get eblogger to work correctly.....so, I will attempt it again today as I sit at my desk looking outside at the pouring rain!)

Even thought the temperatures and the humidity are oppressive, I continue to get up every morning and take my daily walk. I arrive back home wringing wet, but happy that I pushed myself to get my exercise in. Then I eat some chocolate covered raisins to reward myself! Just kidding...................sort of. ha! : )

As I walk along my neighborhood of some 30+ years, I have every area memorized in my mind. I know all of the nuances.....the "bumps" in the road....the houses where the dogs bark the loudest....the yards that are perfectly manicured....and, those that are not. I have seen older cars replaced with shiny new ones....and tree stumps removed when the springtime storms have gotten the better of the large, and stately trees that surround the neighborhood.

I have watched families come and go through the years. There are only a few of us left at the bottom of the street....we are now the "older folks" who have lived here the longest. I'm not sure that I like that title, but, what can one do? Maybe "seniority" has its perks....?

Many of the homes are being sold and purchased by younger families. It's nice to see the children out playing and listen to their squeals of laughter and joy. It seems that it wasn't that long ago that my own two boys were doing that....I miss that.

This neighborhood is close to the elementary school as well as the high school which makes it prime property for families. There are grocery stores nearby as well as lots of drugstores....and, one of the newest (and most popular) outdoor malls in the city. One doesn't have to go far to get whatever they might need. I have gotten quite spoiled living here!

Many of the homes have such stories to tell. My across the street neighbor moved in with three small children years ago and, with the blink of an eye, they have all now graduated from college and beyond. Two are married and one of the two has two children, and the youngest is now a lawyer in a prestigious local law firm.
I watch their mother (who is now a happy grandma) playing with the grandkids in their front yard.

Some of the neighbors have had to deal with loss....husbands and, even a son, to AIDS years ago. Illnesses have touched families around me and I have watched them bravely move on with their lives.

Many of the older neighbors have moved on to smaller "garden" homes that are all on one level so that they don't have stairs to maneuver....or, yards to mow.

Unfortunately, in these tough economic times, I watch "For Sale" signs go up with the message "Price Reduced" attached to the main sign. There have even been a couple of foreclosures....But, eventually, they do sell and big moving vans show up filled with new beginnings and interesting stories to come.

So, as I sit here, I realize how much of my life has been spent in this house in this neighborhood and, how very much I love it here. I love that I can have my boys and their families stay here with me when they visit, I love the location, I love that many friends live so close by....and, I love that familiar "hug" that I feel whenever I come back home after a trip.

Walls have been painted, carpeting has been changed, furniture has been updated, repairs have been made, my own children have grown and moved on to their own neighborhoods with their families....but, no matter what.....this is still home....and I am so grateful to still be living here to observe life going on all around me.

: )

Way to go, Woody!

2011-07-17T14:26:00.005-05:00

Dave and I went to see Midnight in Paris yesterday afternoon. It is being called "one of Woody Allen's best" by critics. I found it to be interesting and quite delightful....but, not what I would actually expect from "cousin" Woody.

Yes, I am related to Woody Allen. My father's dad (my grandfather) and Woody's mom were sister and brother.

When my dad was alive, he may have seen Woody on one or two occasions up in New York many, many years ago.....but, as far as the rest of my family....nope. He probably wouldn't have any idea who I was....but, that is okay. I know that we are related. : )

(Mom, Dad and a much younger Woody long ago!)
There was a period of time (like when he married his daughter!?!) that I would have denied the connection....but, now that time has passed I am much more comfortable talking about it.

Anyway, back to the movie. I do recommend it....the acting is great and the scenery is magnificent. There is a great lesson to be learned within the story....and, it has some good laughs all throughout.

Way to go, Cuz! : )

Ta dum!

2011-07-16T10:51:00.001-05:00

Well, the first week of my two adult pottery classes is over and here are some of the results.

The ladies moan and "complain" the whole time, but they end up with some very interesting pieces.

Next week we attempt clay boxes.

Should be interesting!

Jenny's Special Day!

2011-07-14T11:56:00.000-05:00

Happy Birthday my dear Jenny!!

How can I possibly describe my daughter-in-law Jenny to you?

Besides being beautiful, fun-loving, a great mom and wife, an unbelievably talented singer, tell-it-like-it-is person, artistic, dramatic, creative cake maker, ready-for-anything person, etc....she has that joyous spirit about her that is contagious....and, best of all, she can be silly at a moment's notice!

Have a great day, Jenny, you deserve it!
I love you,
Mom

They came....they created.....

2011-07-13T16:43:00.002-05:00

Here are some of the coil bowls that were created last night by my first pottery class. Some were a bit crooked.....some were a bit soggy.....but, they were all a really great start!! I had expressed that these initial bowls were going to be some "perfectly imperfect" items....and, that was what made them so special.

We had a lot of fun....lots of laughing as the women got into the clay....most of them for the very first time. Some of the younger girls brought some wine and snacks....and, I heard others vowing to do the same next week.

I loved that they didn't take it all too seriously. Life is serious enough just day to day. Pottery classes are meant to be a fun escape....and, hopefully, it was for this group.

Next group of women arrive tomorrow night for my Thursday night class.

I'm looking forward to it!

Pottery 101

2011-07-12T17:07:00.002-05:00

My first adult pottery class starts tonight at 6. I am expecting 10 women tonight (and, ten more on Thursday night) of all different backgrounds to attend....including young mothers, a Judge and Author, a cake designer, retirees, a doctor, and a couple of fabulous artists.

It should be an interesting group...

I hope that they come ready to get their hands dirty and play in clay!

: )

More to come.....

If you can't beat them, eat them?

2011-07-11T09:53:00.000-05:00

I spoke about the unbelievably delicious (and fattening!) Paula Deen cheese biscuits and hoecakes in a previous post....and, this weekend, I decided to do something about those wonderful light and fluffy morsels.
I made some myself!

Of course, while Paula might make hers with shortening and bacon fat, I substituted those for lowfat butter and used fat free buttermilk. I'm not sure that she would approve of my "healthifying" her recipes, but, then, she doesn't have my cholesterol issues!

The hoecakes were a nice addition to our Friday night dinner.....but, the cheese biscuits took the prize. We had them for breakfast yesterday and they were quite good. Light and fluffy and relatively easy to make. I froze the ones that were leftover to save for another time when the craving reappears...

Mmmmmm......

What I learned from my grandson today....

2011-07-09T10:19:00.005-05:00

I decided to call my daughter-in-law, Jenny, this morning and see how things were going now that my son was off in Germany on business and she was at home alone with the two little ~~angels~~ ones. She was doing fine and getting ready to take them to a water park and I could hear the grandkids being silly and excited in the background.

Audrey got a bit too rambunctious (takes after her Grammie...my mom can attest to that!) and was being "escorted" to her room....So, Owen picked up the phone to talk. Fifteen minutes later (Grammie Heaven).....here is what I learned.

1.) Audrey gets in trouble a lot, but not so much Owen.

2.) Owen can ride his bicycle at "super duper fast" speeds, but Audrey is a little slower on her new bike.

3.) When Owen's 5th birthday arrives in September he would like a "Spiderman Pinball Wizard" something-or-other?????

4.) Owen's best friend, "Dovengot" (I never get that name right!) moved to another class....so his new best friend is called (I swear it sounded like he said this...) "Amooba". I told him that it sounded like a cow sound. He giggled as he repeated the name to "silly" Grammie.

5.) Daddy is in a far away place but will be home this afternoon. Then in two days, he will be going to another far away place. He misses him a lot when he is away.

6.) School (day care)will be starting again in "two days". (Two days seems to be his point of reference for all things these days.)

7.) They are going to be getting new carpeting in their house.

8.) The water park that they are going to is outside and it might be raining but..he thinks "the rain may have come last night and now it is going to be gone".

9.) They had a great time on their "staycation" to a water park and hotel adventure last weekend.

10.) He still remembers all of the fun they had with the two "Screaming Greemies" (Grammie and Mimi) and wants us to come again.

11.) He thinks that there might be some birthday cake left when Papa Dave and I arrive two days after his actual birthday in September.

Oh, how I am looking forward to that leftover cake along with lots of hugs and more conversations like I had this morning!

: )

Life imitating cartoons?

2011-07-08T14:46:00.001-05:00

Silliness

2011-07-07T14:55:00.003-05:00

I love this placemat that a dear friend gave me.

It reminds me to be silly whenever I can...

: )

I'll get you for this, Paula Deen!

2011-07-06T14:42:00.007-05:00

Yes, she looks very sweet and innocent as she beckons you with her famous fried chicken.....but, watch out....the Paula Deen Buffet at Harrah's Casino is out to get you! Dave and I ran over to Tunica (4 + hours away) this past weekend for two days and found ourselves salivating over this buffet.

Picture rows and rows of delectably enticing foods. You have your choice of: salads, fruit, fried fish, grilled oysters, fried shrimp (to die for!), fried okra, corn bread, seafood gumbo, chicken noodle soup, ribs, pork bar-b-que, steamed corn on the cob~ potatoes~and shrimp, slaw, potato salad, corn pudding, fried chicken strips, steamed crab legs, every vegetable casserole imaginable, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.

Add to this.....a bell that rings every so often as the soft, warm, freshly baked cheese biscuits (I swear... these are so light that you have to hold them down so that they don't float off of your plate!) and hoecakes are out of the oven....a cheer goes up from the patrons....and, before you can say "yum", a woman comes around to your table with a basketful of these delicious goodies. OMG.

As if this all hasn't done enough damage to your diet (puleeeze!).....there is a mouth-watering dessert area that is just waiting for you to fill your plate with these homemade sweets. Where can I start? There is every cake (coconut and carrot were my two favorites) and pie imaginable, cookies, ice cream with toppings, sweet breads, brownies, lemon squares, cobbler, bread pudding, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.

All I can say (with a contented groan) is..............................................."Mmmmm, that was good!"

I'll get you for this, Paula!

(But, in the meantime, "thanks"!)
: )

Angry Birds and candlelight....

2011-07-05T14:41:00.004-05:00

So, what did you do on the Fourth of July?

Dave and I spent the afternoon and evening at my house without any electricity.

Storms rolled through the area around 4 in the afternoon. The lights flickered off and on. We began to talk to them as if they could hear us..."Stay on! Stay on!" I yelled to these inanimate objects. It was all to no avail. We were soon without any power...and, that included air conditioning on this sweltering July afternoon.

I called the "Power Outage" hotline (No pun intended....ha!) to report the situation and got a recorded message that said "...yes, it looks like there is an issue in your neighborhood and we expect to have it fixed by 5:30 p.m."

OK. We can handle that.

So, I began to read and Dave listened to a baseball game on my battery run radio. It was actually kind of nice and peaceful and cozy.

Then, as darkness began to set in, I got out tons of candles and spread them out around the den and kitchen.

I thought that it was kind of romantic.

I don't think that Dave agreed (!!), who by this time was deeply into playing "Angry Birds" on my iPad while listening to a ballgame on the radio earphones, starting to get hungry....and, wondering when the power was going to be back on.

I was continuing to read through a stack of unread magazines with my trusty flashlight.

He stopped the game long enough to go outside (in the pouring rain) to light the grill. I followed him with a huge umbrella and a pork tenderloin that he had purchased before coming over.

My son, Jeffrey, had grilled some peaches while I was there visiting last week...and, they were delicious....so, we threw a couple of them on the grill along with some leftover rice and mushrooms sealed in tin foil.... from the night before. We also had a slightly warm watermelon that he had brought over.

It was turning in to quite a feast.

We sat at the kitchen counter and ate our dinner in the candlelit, but, otherwise totally dark room.

After dinner, we were back on the couch again (Dave with Angry Birds and me with my magazines and flashlight) as I continued to call the Power Co. to get updates. Unfortunately, the times for having the power returned were getting later and later....and, the house was getting warmer and warmer.....They were now saying 10:45 p.m.

Giving in to the situation, we headed to bed around 9:30...figuring that we could at least get a good night's sleep.

Wrong.

First my alarm system began to "chirp". I'm still not sure why it did that....but, I put the code in and all was quiet again.

After tossing and turning for a couple more hours, the power did finally return sometime after midnight. The partially finished clothing in my washing machine began to churn again, some of the house lights went back on, and the air conditioning humming began as it slowly cooled things down.

I am not sure when we finally got back to sleep....but, suddenly it was 6:00 a.m. and my phone began to ring.
Who could be calling at this ungodly hour??

As I put the phone to my ear....I heard a recording from the Power Co. asking me if our power had been restored. I pressed "1" for yes and blearingly hung the phone up.

You have got to be kidding.

Thanks for the wake up call, Alabama Power!!

Oh, and Happy Fourth of July!?!?

Happy Fourth of July!

2011-07-04T09:41:00.001-05:00

These words still ring true today.....

We hold these truths to be self-evident:

that all men are created equal,

that they are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable rights,

among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

- Thomas Jefferson (Declaration of Independence)

No words really necessary today....

2011-06-29T12:23:00.001-05:00

Missing these two......

What a wonderful 5 days with Celia and Dylan.....
: )

What do I know? : )

2011-06-24T12:29:00.005-05:00

I mistakenly called the Disney character that attended Audrey's birthday party "Ariel"....and, have since learned that she was "Jasmine" instead. I guess that I need to read up on my Disney characters!!----------------------------------- I am writing this as I am up in MD visiting with my son, daughter-in-law, and two precious grandkids! I am having lots of adventures and haven't stopped smiling since arriving yesterday. More to come.....

Ya gotta love this!

2011-06-20T22:56:00.002-05:00

At Audrey's third birthday party on Saturday she had a surprise guest.....Disney's "Ariel".

Not only must that have been a thrill for Audrey and her friends.....but, what about the dads that were at the party???!!

Woo hoo.

Ariel is a big step up from my generation's Minnie Mouse!
: )

A day to honor "fathers"....

2011-06-19T19:52:00.001-05:00

I have had such mixed feelings today...

On the one hand, I am so proud of my two boys who have turned into such incredibly loving and fun dads. They are so deserving of this special day....and I feel good that they each spent the day with their beautiful families.

But, I have felt an emptiness in my heart because my dear father is no longer here to receive the appropriate attention from his four daughters....and, to be among the honored today. I miss his presence so.

To all of the wonderful, caring fathers out there, I salute you today!

....hopelessly devoted to you....

2011-06-18T11:39:00.002-05:00

Yes, this is my new love....or should I say, my new sweet "additction"?

It is like eating smooth, creamy mint chocolate chip ice cream for only 100 calories a serving....and I love, love, love it!

Move aside chocolate covered raisins...there's a new kid in town!
: ) Mmmmmm.

Audrey!! Audrey!! Audrey!!

2011-06-17T08:54:00.004-05:00

Today is your day to dance lightly with life,
sing wild songs of adventure,
invite rainbows and butterflies out to play,
soar your spirit, and unfurl your joy.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Dear Audrey,

How can it be that you turn THREE today????

Whether you are dressing up as Spiderman or all decked out as a Princess....you are uniquely YOU....and, you make me smile, laugh, and feel incredible joy.

Word has it that Disney's Ariel is coming to your birthday party tomorrow! I wish that I could see the look on your face when you see her. I am hoping that Daddy will take lots of pictures!!

I miss you so very much and can't wait to fly up to visit soon!

In the meantime, Happy, Happy Birthday to my precious, one-of-a-kind granddaughter.....wishing you all good things today and always.

I love you,
Grammie

You can't fight City Hall.....or, can you?

2011-06-16T08:59:00.001-05:00

Last Friday huge trucks came rumbling down my street. I watched as their machinery "chunked" up the existing road....getting it ready to be paved. They left quite a mess of rocks and broken pieces of the street, but, knowing that it would soon be covered with fresh asphalt, I didn't get too concerned about it.

Driving on the street became quite hazardous to my car as I maneuvered my way through sharp rocks and debris. This area of broken up road was pretty much my entire neighborhood. When I went out walking I heard many people express their dismay over this state of affairs. Rumor had it that the new road would not be put into place until sometime next week. The question was then.... why did they chunk it up so early in the process?

I finally decided to take matters into my own hands....and call up the "man in charge" of all of this at City Hall. Of course, I got his answer machine and left a synopsis of my complaint. I was kind, but firm....as I always go back to the saying: "You can catch more flies with sugar than you can with vinegar!".

I never really expected to hear back from him.

But, I did.

We had a lengthy conversation where he explained to me all of the reasons (excuses?) for the road not being paved until sometime later next week. At one point my frustration level got a little high and I asked him if my city was going to pay for new tires for my car as well as an alignment?

After realizing that I wasn't really getting anywhere with this, I thanked him kindly for his time and for listening to my concerns. He apologized for the inconvenience and the call was ended.

A few hours later he called me back and let me know that he was working on getting the men out there before next week. In my most "sugary" voice I thanked him and told him that would be wonderful.

Early this morning I was awakened to the "beep beep beep" sound of huge trucks making their way down my street. I ran to the window and here is what I saw:

My road was being paved!!!!

I immediately called City Hall and left a glowing thank you message to the gentleman with whom I had spoken to yesterday!

Then, I went outside and personally thanked the men who were out there working and sweating to get this job done.

I never imagined that the sound of beeping would be so beautiful to my ears....

Free Hugs

2011-06-15T08:03:00.002-05:00

While out shopping yesterday I came upon two young men (they looked to be about in their 20's) carrying a simple, handmade sign that said, "Free Hugs".

I had heard about this being done in other places so I approached them gingerly with arms outstretched to collect my hugs. (At this point, people who know me well are shaking their heads as they read this saying, "That sounds just like her to do that!") : ) What can I tell you? I wouldn't ever pass up a chance for a free hug!

Anyway, I got my hugs.....we exchanged smiles....they thanked me....and, got ready to move on....when I noticed a small, worn cardboard box that one of the guys was holding. It said "hugs for tornado victims" and there were a few bills and assorted amounts of change inside of it.

Being a (naive?) believer in the goodness in people...and, hoping that these funds were really going to the tornado victims, I reached for my wallet, pulled out a couple of dollars...and placed them in the box.

Small price to pay for a warm and friendly hug. : )

"Rainbow of Glazes" and some other stuff.

2011-06-14T09:06:00.002-05:00

As I begin to make preparations for my Summer Pottery Classes, this is one of the projects on my "to do" list. So that the women can see the variety of underglaze colors, I cut out clay circles, put a hole at the top (Thanks, Karen!), painted the underglaze on, fired it.....and finished up covering half of the circle with the clear, glossy overglaze.....firing it again...and, voila! The names and numbers of each color are painted on the back.... I have strung them together with thin wire....and they are ready to go! Now ordering underglazes should be much easier!

As I laid them out, I had to go and get my camera as I thought that the beautiful shades of color made for a lovely rainbow. It also made me think of all of the color choices that I now have as I get ready to get my hands in the clay again! Ah.....

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As I sit posting today, I have a heating pad on my lower back and upper thigh. I am "warming up" before getting on the treadmill for my morning walk. Yes, my sciatica is certainly letting me know that it is there again!

Who said that getting older was all fun and games? : O

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Dave played in a "Scramble" Golf Tournament in Philadelphia, Mississippi last weekend.(I am laughing to myself as I type out Mississippi while singing "M-I-double S---I---double S----I----double P----I" the whole time! ....memories of childhood...).

Fortunately, his team of four came in first.

Unfortunately, his car didn't fare as well.

He ended up having to literally duct tape a crack in his radiator that was hissing as coolant made its way out causing the engine to overheat.

Duct tape??!?!

He also put in some kind of powder that he got at a gas station along the way home that supposedly would dissolve and adhere to the inside of the tank....stopping any leaks from the inside out.

Miraculously, he made it home safely without overheating his engine.

Today it is in a Lexus shop being fixed.....but, as I sit here typing I can't help but wonder why he had duct tape in his car???? Hmmm.

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I am having so much fun buying some little "happy gifts" to take to Celia and Dylan when I head up there a week from this Thursday. Dylan is having a little surgery and I am flying up to help out.

I cannnot wait to get up there and get my arms around those two. I have only seen pictures of 6 month old Dylan....the last time I saw him was when he was just a few weeks old.....and, Celia and I Skype once in a while.....but, nothing is the same as being there up close and personal!!!

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Dave and I had the arduous task of opening up my backyard pool on Sunday afternoon. This is a long process that takes a little skill and tons of patience!

The first thing is to remove the cover, rinse it off, fold it up neatly....and, put it away until the weather begins to get cool again later on this year. Dave has this part down to a science. How he gets that huge, heavy duty cover into a small folded up rectangle is beyond me....but, he does! I am a lucky woman, aren't I?

The next step is to vacuum the debris that has collected throughout the fall and winter months. This should be easy....but, is really isn't.

You have to connect the pieces and then (here is the hard part) lower the tubing into the pool and get all of the air out of it (this is called 'priming') as it fills with water. It is an important step in that you don't want to fool with air in the line. Sounds easy, eh?

Well, again this year, I sat and watched several instructional videos online of in-ground pool vacuuming demonstrations. Taking that "knowledge" with me and applying it to the task is a whole 'nother thing.

Dave held the telescoping pole in the deep end of the pool while I took the other end of the tubing and held it underwater where there is forceful water entering. This should begin to fill the tubing while pushing all of the air out and through the head of the vacuum. According to the videos, you know that this is working because you can see tons of bubbles starting to rise from the bottom of the pool where the head is sitting.

Well, we waiting and waited....no bubbles.

So, we switched positions and tried again.

No bubbles.

Dave even got the garden hose out and tried to fill it that way.

No bubbles.

Bottom line is....we eventually just hooked everything up and began to vacuum and it worked just fine.

I'm still not sure what we did, but, bubbles or not, it worked.

Anybody want to come over and swim? : )
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OK. The heat on my back has done the trick and I am ready to begin to move this body of mine on the treadmill. I'll watch a little Regis and Kelly as I get my two mile walk completed in the cool air-conditioning.

This is a whole lot easier than vacuuming the pool.

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Have a nice day, all!

"So, what's new at "The Home"? I asked Mom yesterday....

2011-06-13T07:00:00.000-05:00

"Oh, not much...." she answered.

And, then she began to tell me stories....and more stories....and more.....

I absolutely love hearing every little detail of her latest escapades...it always makes me laugh as her tales go in one direction and then quickly switch to another and another until I am now hearing 5 or 6 other little stories.....each of them a "spin-off" from the original.

"Now, what was I telling you?" she'll ask, as her own diverging stories have made her forget where we started.

Sometimes she even throws in a "to make a long story short"....here and there....which really gets me chuckling....especially as the tales get longer and longer.

But, she has my complete attention.

For, as I listen to her share her world with me long distance....I continually count my blessings for having my mom in my life....and, I put these stories away in my heart along with my other treasures.

xoxo

I had mixed feelings as I watched the men carrying my old bed to their truck today....

2011-06-11T22:37:00.017-05:00

That bed carried a lot of old memories with it. Some great....like having my grandkids jumping up and down on it the last time they visited....and, some, not as great....like having it there to remind me of my "aloneness" after my divorce was final........But, mostly, it is joyous as my grown kids always love getting all cozy in my bed when they come home.....as we watch tv together....or, just talk and laugh about everything and nothing.... : )

But, knowing that these men were going to be donating my mattress, box springs, and frame to a needy family affected by the recent tornado outbreak made my heart smile.

I am hopeful that it might be a small part of the beginning of someone's road to rebuilding after the tragic storms....and, a soft spot to land on when their days are tough....a beginning of new memories.

I wish all of the tornado survivors only good things as they put their lives back together piece by piece...

I know that it will take a lot more than just a bed....but, it is a start.

I couldn't wait to get into my bed last night!

2011-06-10T19:49:00.002-05:00

Now that I have your attention......ha!

Actually, the truth is, I just bought a brand new bed and it was delivered yesterday.

All day long I was filled with the excitement and anticipation of having an incredibly wonderful night's sleep on my brand new Simmon's mattress and boxspring. Ever since my sciatica has been acting up, I have come to the realization that my very old bed was just that....very old. It was saggy where it shouldn't have been, and, even though it was certainly soft and squishy to sleep on...it probably wasn't doing much good for my back!

I did a little research and found out that a nice firm mattress would probably be the best bet....so, off I went to begin to test it all out. I laid down on quite a few beds....and, then took Dave back with me to see what he thought. Unfortunately, he seemed to like the "plush" side of the beds while I favored the "firmer" side. Both had a pillow top so I figure that would help with the firmness.

So, the Simmon's firm /pillow top won out.

When I woke up this morning, I expected all of my aches and pains to be miraculously gone after sleeping on my brand new (and, expensive) mattress.

But, I still had my usual aches and pains when I woke up. What was I thinking?

Anyway, I am now a bit concerned that the "firm" one may be a little too firm!! I am questioning my decision and making myself crazy. The store's policy is that I must keep it for at least 30 days....and, if I am still not happy with it I can exchange it for a different mattress.....pay for shipping costs, as well as a 15% re-stocking fee.

Yikes.

Stay tuned for my next 30 days on the brand new mattress.... : )

Good night.

"That woman is so loved", I thought to myself.

2011-06-08T15:38:00.001-05:00

Tears were streaming down my face this morning as I watched the Today Show's "Good-bye" to Meredith Viera....I was so moved by the outpouring of love being directed to her as she gets ready to retire from the program.

She has such a spirit about her and seems to have touched so many people in her career, most especially these last five years on the Today Show. Her positive and fun-loving personality really makes her shine. It was a pretty amazing, as well as a heartwarming, display of sincere emotion from everyone on the set.

She will be missed.
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Sitting here at my computer, I can hear the loud motor of the pressure washer going outside my home. This is the second attempt to get the job done. The first one left my patio looking like someone had drawn graffiti on the patio. The men must have gotten tired, so instead of cleaning all of the "winter dirt" off....they made wiggly lines and characters into the patio.....

Interesting.
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I was absolutely shocked today to read a letter from Blue Cross/Blue Shield stating that my bi-monthly fee had actually been reduced about $130. How often does that happen? It actually made me nervous that a mistake had been made and that I should keep the whole thing under wraps. As I read more, it seems that the Maternity Care Benefits had been changed....so, I guess that was what caused the decrease.

Good thing. I certainly have no intention of getting pregnant at 62. : O
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Starting in July I will begin to teach pottery classes here in my home studio. I have done this before and it was a lot of fun and a great way to make a little much needed money (!). I am doing two adult classes and two children's classes. So far the kid's groups are all boys....that should be interesting!

As far as the adult classes, I always encourage them to bring a "drink of their choice".
Usually, it is wine. : ) It proves to be a great "confidence builder"! *hic*
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We have gone from severe storms to a HEAT WAVE here in the Deep South. With temperatures hovering in the mid to high 90's, I am ever sooooo grateful for air-conditioning.
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Stay cool and have a nice day!

Now this is what I call relaxing and being cool all at the same time....

2011-06-07T20:22:00.000-05:00

(Celia, May 2011)

Time flies when you are having fun.....

2011-06-06T18:11:00.001-05:00

"The bad news is time flies.

The good news is you're the pilot."

- Michael Althsuler

We got home late yesterday after spending five fun, and exhausting days in S. Florida with the family!

When I got back home and settled in I realized that I hadn't blogged the entire time.....and, asked myself where did the time go?? It certainly seems to fly by these days! I wish that it would S-L-O-W down...

The main reason for the trip? My nephew and his fiance' were being honored at an engagement party. It was quite an affair. My sister, Karen, did everything in her wonderfully special way, as usual. She had about 100 people in her beautiful backyard with tables set around the pool and under a huge (20' X 40') tent on the grassy area. She picked out gorgeous fabrics (completely assorted) and made bright, happy tablecloths for all of the tables. The tent was decorated with lights and colorful lanterns....a combo played music on the patio, the bar was set up for anything at all that one would ever want to drink....but, the hit of the night was the champagne served over passion fruit "bubbles" that burst in your mouth and then the whole thing was topped with a dollop of sorbet. I drank my usual wine, but heard that the champagne drink was out of this world!

The bride to be's mom is a well known caterer there and she and her crew did all of the incredible hors d'eurves. There was everything from artichoke tarts to mini-lobster rolls (my favorite). Many people thought that the appetizers were dinner and began to move to the dessert table.....until the real meal of bar-b-que brisket, ribs and chicken was spread out! I ate way too much of this delicious food......

Mom was there with her sweet "boyfriend" and the two of them held hands and smiled at each other all night. She looked beautiful and continues to giggle like a school girl when she is around him....a "teenager" again at the ripe old age of 88! You've got to love it.

As we all sat around the lunch table Sunday afternoon before catching our flights back home, glasses were raised..... to young love, joyous occasions, and, most of all.....FAMILY.

*sigh*

: )

Don't Go Shopping With a Man Unless It Is Absolutely Necessary!

2011-05-29T20:08:00.003-05:00

Dave and I went shopping today.

Not a good idea.

Men are just missing that shopping gene. That is all there is to it.

For most women, there is nothing more delightful than browsing around stores looking for that perfect item to purchase. We may find it in a matter of minutes....or, several hours. It doesn't really matter, because the hunt is part of the joy. If it is clothing, we hold it up, touch the fabric, read the washing instructions, try it on, think about it.....think about it.....ask a girlfriend if they are with us.....if not, ask the salesgirl's opinion....and, then think about it some more.

Dave needed some pants to wear when we go out of town this week. He reluctantly tried on several pairs that I found in his size. As soon as he found one that fit comfortably...that was it! "Please go and find this in other colors" he said.

He happily clutched the light khaki, dark khaki, and black pants and he was done and ready to check out and leave the store!

Done?

But, I was just getting started...

My Favorite Breakfast Sandwich

2011-05-28T16:34:00.001-05:00

Slow day for news....so, I thought that I'd share my morning meal with you all.

It started with two egg whites.

I decided to try and "flip" the egg in the air like I have seen the great chefs do on tv.

It actually worked without getting all over the stovetop as I have done in past attempts.

Next, I added some of the claw meat from the leftover crab claws that we served at a dinner party for friends.

I toasted the whole wheat bread and sprayed it with my "I Can't Believe It's Not Butter" stuff.....I'm not really sure exactly what it is. It says that it has no calories, no fat, nothing! Maybe it is just water with yellow food coloring it in? Who knows.....but, I use it all of the time!

Now, the special ingredient.....I spread some softened avacado on one side of the "buttered" bread. Mmmm.

Cut it in half and dig in....and, there you have it!

Boy, I really need a life.... : o

Are you kidding me?

2011-05-27T06:23:00.000-05:00

This is the peanut butter that I usually purchase at my local Publix store.
The one on the left is an older one that is almost empty.
The one on the right is new and was just purchased at the same price as the older one.

Do they not think that the consumer will notice the size difference?!?!?!?

I'd rather have them raise the price a bit than deceptively make the products smaller and smaller.
Agree?

What in the world is going on???

2011-05-23T23:09:00.000-05:00

I am unable to sleep tonight as I watch the special tv report about the horrific tornado that wiped out more than 75% of Joplin, Missouri.

Unfathomable.

Frightening.

Shocking.

Sad.

The meteorologists are speaking about the conditions making these areas ripe for the formation of severe storms....colder than usual temperatures in the north colliding with warm, humid temperatures in the southern half of the country.

Horrendous.

Monstrous.

Alarming.

Confusing.

Most of us made light of the preacher's predictions of the end of the world occurring at 6:00 pm on Saturday. Suddenly, people are beginning to wonder about what is happening all around us.

Dreadful.

Shocking.

Heartbreaking.

Desperate.

Search and rescue teams are still out hoping to find any survivors that might be trapped under the debris.
People are walking around dazed and confused. It is more like a war zone....than a small town neighborhood.

As I turn off the tv and decide to go to bed, my heart is heavy.
I feel a sense of helplessness as I think about the tragedies that have occurred to innocent people in these last few months. People without homes, people who have lost loved ones, people whose lives will never be the same.
What can we possibly do?

For now....

Pray that calmer times are ahead......

Unplugged

2011-05-19T22:03:00.001-05:00

For several hours today I was without my cable television, my phone and the Internet. Charter was working on many of the storm damaged lines in Birmingham and all of the services were shut down.

Horrors?!

Not really.

Other than the fact that I wanted to see who made the finals of American Idol (!) tonight, it was really kind of nice.....and, quiet...and, I liked it....for a while, anyway.

I read every inch of the newspaper.
I went through a stack of papers on my desk.
I just "was".

Of course....when things began to work again....

I watched American Idol.
I got right back online reading emails, etc.
I phoned a couple of friends.

And, I sat down and posted this on my blog.

So much for being "unplugged".
: )

He would have been 93 today....

2011-05-17T18:17:00.000-05:00

Thinking of you, Dad.
xoxo

May 17, 1918-March 4, 2008

I stared at the three miniature muffins, the one large sticky bun, and the bagel on my plate....

2011-05-16T18:39:00.002-05:00

...and, thought to myself...."What's with all of these carbs? Do I think that I am training for a marathon???!"

Dave and I attended a friend's daughter's wedding over the weekend. It was held at Reynold's Plantation on Lake Oconee (Georgia) and was quite beautiful....as well as a definite "eating fest". My plate of food was from the Sunday brunch buffet which was quite delicious as well as highly caloric....and, I didn't let a thing go to waste.

OK. I did, at least, put some fruit on the plate....and, later got scrambled egg whites....so I got a little taste of some healthy food. Very little. : )
*groan*

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Ah, the next few weekends I will be staying home! I have been traveling so very much that I am really going to relish these next few weeks without anywhere to go.

Maybe I can even get my hands back into the clay and be productive for a change...

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There is a road that I travel on almost all of the time that was hit hard by the bad storms a few weeks ago. It is right near my home and the entire look of it has changed....huge trees are now cut up and lying on people's yards waiting to be picked up and taken away....roofs are covered with blue tarpe to protect the insides of the homes...electrical poles are slowly being put back in after so many of them were destroyed...etc. etc.

It is like the topography of the area is totally different. It used to be this tree-lined drive and now all that you see is sky.

No matter how many times I drive down it....I get upset every time that I see the destruction.
I just hope that the people who live in those houses are doing okay....so sad.

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More good news continues to come from Mom and "The Home". She and her "steady" are still doing well and having fun. In fact, I think that she is having more fun than I am these days! "The Home" has so many events planned that it is nonstop entertainment....They recently celebrated Cinco de Mayo with Mexican food and a full blown Mariachi band. Prior to that she dressed up with a hat, pearls and gloves to attend the "Mock Royal Wedding". : )

I can't wait to hear what is next!

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I'm not happy with American Idol these days. I was quite disappointed that James Durbin was eliminated last week.

Having Turrett's Syndrome as well as mild Aspberger's made him a role model for so many people. His story was inspiring and his singing was excellent as well as entertaining. I hated to see him go.

I enjoyed his extremely emotional performances. He really sang from his heart.

Here's hoping for a successful future for this young man. I can't wait to buy his first CD.

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Well, I see that my hummingbird feeder is empty....time to make some more red sugar water for them!

My two "grandgirlies" got together!

2011-05-11T18:33:00.000-05:00

Last weekend, Adam and Audrey headed to MD to visit with Jeffrey's group....more specifically, to get the two girl cousins together. Audrey and Celia are just a few months apart in age and don't get to see each other as often as they would like due to the distance between them. So, this was a real treat.....not only for them, but, for me... as I have gone through the many photos time and time again.

Oh, how I miss them all!

...and, a few more pictures....

2011-05-11T18:32:00.000-05:00

If I could just magically push MN, AL and MD together.....wouldn't that be great?!
*sigh*

One of us was a big winner at The Derby....

2011-05-10T11:30:00.003-05:00

....and one of us was not....

The winner was Dave.....seen here studying the Derby information sheets.

Dave and his friend, Dean, pooled their money and bet on the main Derby race together. They did a trifecta box with the following horses: Animal Kingdom, Nehro, and Mucho Macho Man. If you followed the race, you know that those three horses finished 1,2,and 3...making them the winners of $2000. !!!!
The winnings will be split two ways and then Uncle Sam will take out his share of the prize....so, they will both end up with over $800. Not to bad for a day's fun!

I, on the other hand, made a $6 bet for Mucho Macho Man to win, place or show.
He came in third.
I won $7.

Maybe next time I should study the programs a little bit more.
: )

Run for the Roses

2011-05-05T11:47:00.000-05:00

Well, today I am going through my "going out of town" rituals. You would think, that with all of the traveling I have been doing these last few years, I would have this down pat.

But, I don't.

I will still pack and unpack until the very final weather report on Louisville comes out. Right now temperatures are going to be cooler than usual....soooo, I may have to throw in a jacket or two?

I saved doing my "roots" until today (I know that you thought that I was totally natural) as well as polishing my nails....as well as other routine "maintenance" things.

I like to leave my home nice and straight and clean whenever I leave town....so, that is on my list.

And, my plants certainly need to be heavily watered....not to mention the birds awaiting several days worth of bird seed in the feeder.

I must reset the sprinkler system (it went out during the storms) so that it does not think that this is January, 1997!

Alarms-check. Auto lights-check. Boarding pass-check. Mail stopped-check. Newspapers stopped-check. Neighbors alerted-check. Bills paid-check.

I'm exhasuted and I haven't even gotten off of the ground yet...
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I have been asked what my favorite horse is this year in the Derby race.

Well, since my picking "system" is so very flawed I almost hesitate to share....but, I will.

You see, I always go on feel....or the sound of the name....or the color of the silks. I rarely read the information on the horse and/or jockey.

So, my picks so far are:

Mucho Macho Man (takes me back to my disco days with the Village People!)
Pants on Fire (who can resist a name like that?)
Archarcharch (huh?)

and, possibly:
Watch Me Go
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Have a great weekend all!
: )

I didn't win the Kentucky Derby Hat contest....

2011-05-04T12:52:00.001-05:00

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Oh well.

Kathie Lee and Hoda had a contest to see who could come up with the most creative hat. I was hoping that there was a slight chance that my homemade hat with the horses circling around the ribbon "eating flowers behind a white picket fence" would have caught the judges eyes. I made it a few years ago and it has stood the test of time....and Derby's (Derbies?).

The winner's hat was actually a horse's behind....tail and all.

Go figure.
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Speaking of The Derby, I am having fun with Owen and Audrey (and, hopefully, soon to include Celia) as I have had them pick the name of one horse running in the Derby that sounded good to them. When I am at Churchill Downs I will place a $2 bet on each of their horses to 'win'. I thought that might encourage them to watch the race and cheer for their individual favorite horse.

I have to start "training" them to do a little "gambling with Grammie"...so, that when I am old and cranky they can take me to the casino so that I can play my slot machines. Good idea, eh?
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I lost my newspaper two days ago.

Now, while that doesn't sound like such a strange thing (or does it?)....the point is that I went out to get it....I remember taking the plastic cover off of it when I got inside the house....went to walk.....came home and it was nowhere to be seen.

I checked every square inch of my house....garbage cans, bathrooms, closets.....even inside the clothes dryer!

I still have not been able to locate it.....and, it is driving me absolutely crazy.

I'll let you know if it ever shows up.
*sigh*
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Well, I guess that it is time for me to head out and take care of some "going out of town" errands....you know, prescriptions, money, etc. etc.

Then the fun begins when I start trying to pack 4 days worth of clothing into a small suitcase.

It will never happen.
: )

I couldn't have said it any better myself....thanks, Ralph!

2011-05-03T11:39:00.000-05:00

"Finish every day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day is all that is good and fair. It is too dear, with its hopes and invitations, to waste a moment on yesterdays."~Ralph Waldo Emerson

As rough as yesterday might have been.....today holds new promise.
: )

Monday Blues?

2011-05-02T15:46:00.001-05:00

One of my friends wrote on Facebook today that everything feels in turmoil right now....and, I can't agree with her more.

It is such a strange, and unsettling, feeling.

Maybe it was the tornado? Maybe it was my "having two floods in a year" situation? Maybe it is my age? Maybe it is where the moon is situated right now (huh?)? Maybe it is missing my family? Maybe it is the gut-wrenching photos of the damage all around the state?

Or, maybe it is just "life".

The good still far outweighs the bad in life.......but, on this Monday afternoon, 2011, I am searching my soul for some answers...

Everything feels different since the tornadoes....

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It is interesting.

One goes into a grocery store and suddenly finds themselves speaking with complete strangers....about...."The Storms".

People seem to need to talk about it.

We are all suddenly connected.

It doesn't matter whether you are young, old, black, white, Democrat, Republican, rich, poor, etc.....we are all in this together.

Everyone who was spared from these horrendous storms feels the need to reach out to those who weren't as fortunate.

Dave and I found ourselves at Costco today purchasing items....not for ourselves....but, for the storm victims who have been left without anything. We dropped the items off at a local store that was taking donations. It felt good....but, strangely....not enough. What else can we do??? It is almost a helpless feeling...the destruction is so overwhelming. It is hard to get one's mind around it.

Life goes on all around me.

But, it feels significantly different.

It is almost as though you want to hug everyone you see.

Strange....but, wonderful, all at the same time.

A Tragic Day in Alabama

2011-04-28T12:01:00.000-05:00

My heart is breaking over the loss of life and horrific destruction that has taken place here.

As mile long, dangerous tornadoes swirled in counties to the west and north of me, I watched the horror unfold on my television. ( I was one of just a few fortunate people who still had power!) It was absolutely amazing to see and I couldn't seem to stop witnessing it all.

In the days ahead the tragic, heart wrenching stories of survival and loss will begin to unfold. People will come together to help one another. Funds will be set up to take care of those who were left with nothing but the clothing on their backs.

We, humans, do this in the face of adversity....and, it always touches me to observe it.

My heart and prayers go out to those people who are searching through rubble to find pieces of their lives.

May the healing begin.
xoxo

Toto, we're not in Kansas anymore....

2011-04-27T16:58:00.000-05:00

I am sitting here at the computer as I am one of the few lucky ones in the area who still has power. It is very dark and oppressive outside with occasional strong gusts of wind as we are preparing for possible strong storms and tornadoes this afternoon and evening.

It is an eerie feeling as I listen to the weathermen (on every channel) reporting that large and dangerous tornadoes that are all around Birmingham. So far, most of them are a bit north of us...but, they are saying that that will change soon.

Reports of destruction in cities to the north of me are pretty frightening. I know that there have already been 5 fatalities in Alabama. Hopefully, this number will not grow.

I have pillows, a blanket, a flashlight, bottled water, cell phone, my ipad (!), and some magazines down in my basement where I will head if the sirens begin to go off in my county. I am thinking that I should maybe add some wine to my list of "supplies"!

There go the sirens as the tornado seems to be heading to Jefferson County which is where I live.

So, I will end for now. Head downstairs....and, who knows? I might even see "The Wizard"!

Be safe everyone.

The laundry is done....the guest beds are re-made....the dishes are put away.....

2011-04-26T12:51:00.003-05:00

...but, the memories remain....what a wonderful week!

Thanks for making the trip, Mom, Karen and Marty! : )

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More severe storms are headed our way today and tomorrow! It looks like it is going to

be a "memorable" spring....not the kind of memories that one wants, however!

You can actually feel it in the weather today...that heavy, oppressive feeling right before a front

moves in and churns things up.

Time to batten down the hatches, I guess.

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As part of the never-ending post-flood work being done on my house, today I had my ducts cleaned out. This is an interesting (!) process as their humongous machinery is set up in my garage to begin vacuuming

out dust and other debris.

Then, once their machine got going... they kept blowing a fuse causing my phones to stop working and the lights downstairs to go out.

After they "sucked" out the stuff in the ducts, they began to show me how very dangerous dirty ducts can be.

By the time that they were finished giving me their "song and dance" about what else I needed to have done.... I was almost afraid to breathe in my own home.

I told you that it was an interesting process! : O

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A week from Friday, Dave and I will be taking our annual trip to the Kentucky Derby.

He got tickets for the Oaks which is the Ladies Race on Friday. We land in Louisville early Friday and will head right to Churchill Downs. We head to Lexington for the actual Derby on Saturday where we will stay with his friends....sip mint juleps and bet on the horses at the Lexington Track.

Always lots of fun.....just hoping that the weather holds out this year for all of these outdoor events.

Hating good-byes...

2011-04-25T16:45:00.000-05:00

With every "hello" comes a "good-bye".... and today was no exception.

Mom and Karen left at noon to head back to Florida and I miss them already.

I miss the laughter, the spontaneous singing, seeing them come down the stairs every morning, staying in our pj's all morning, eating, eating, eating!, playing Mah Jongg together, toasting each other with our glasses of wine every night, sitting outside and just talking about anything and everything, shopping, and just "being"..........together.

I am counting the days until I fly down there the first of June for Karen's son's engagement party...

Love you both!

Me and Mom

2011-04-23T08:52:00.004-05:00

Having my mom here for a week is such a joy for me...and yesterday I was able to spend some one on one time with her.

My sister was visiting her son at the U of Alabama in Tuscaloosa....and, my brother-in-law had flown back to Florida....so, the day was ours.

First stop was the nail place where I treated Mom to a pedicure. I watched her slowly relax as she got comfortable in the cushioned seat and placed her feet in the warm, fragrant water. It gave me such pleasure to be able to do this little thing for her.

We talked and laughed as I "teased" her about life in "The Home" and all of the male admirers that she has accrued since living there. Her "one special friend" (very special!!) makes her act like a silly schoolgirl once again and I love it! When he calls her at night I can hear her giggling on the phone as he makes her laugh. What a gift this little "later-in-life" romance is for them both. She is 88 and he is 90....both lost spouses with whom they shared a long, and happy marriage. How lucky they are to have found warm companionship in each other...

On to Target to get a few things. Mom had forgotten her cane, so she used the shopping cart to help steady herself as she walked. It is sometimes difficult for me to see how the aging process has taken away some of her physical abilities...but, she doesn't let that get in her way. You would never know that this woman can barely see (because of her macular degeneration) or hear (she is in the process of getting some much-needed hearing aids).

In fact, Mom played several rounds of Mah Jongg with me and my sister....and, one day, a friend. With a huge magnifying glass in her hand and thick magnifying glasses on...she kept up with us. Actually, she put us all to shame as she won one of the games on a very difficult (closed) hand. We all cheered when she did that remarkable feat. It was a great moment.

I am finding out how very stubborn Mom is. I wanted nothing more than to treat her to a few things while we were shopping...but, she did not want me paying for anything so she clutched her "items" to her chest as she went to a different check out counter than me. Unfortunately, she dropped half of her things en route...so I was able to "admonish" her as I went and found her dropped "treasures" all over the produce department. Then I paid for them.

My sister and I have introduced my mom to the world of Internet games on our i-pads. The bright screens are easier for her to see and she was able to play Boggle quite proficiently. Of course, her generation is still not really comfortable with computers so one time when I walked in on her playing the game the screen was black....and she looked up at me and said, "I think that I killed it!". I assured her that she hadn't and play continued as I got her Boggle screen back. : )

Walking Mom out of the nail place yesterday with her newly-painted pink toenails.... several of the women patrons watched the two of us go out hand in hand. One of the ladies said to me how very lucky I was to still have my mother around to spend time with. The others all nodded their heads affirming her statement.

And, believe me, I couldn't agree more......

If you are wondering why I haven't been posting much this week....

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...it is because my mom, sister and bro-in-law are here visiting until Monday.

Such fun.

But, little time for blogging. : (

My first-born turns 37 today!!!!!!

2011-04-18T08:01:00.000-05:00

(Adam and Jenny-2010)

My dear Adam,

I'm not sure where the years have gone...but, today you are actually turning 37 years old!!! How did that happen so quickly?

You epitomize JOY with that huge smile that is always on your face.

You are an incredible father to Owen and Audrey and I see you passing all of your good traits down to them. How lucky they are.

Your optimistic, kind, and enthusiastic personality makes you beloved to all who are fortunate enough to know you...

I wish you all good things as you celebrate your special day!!

Happy, happy birthday, Sweetie....have a big piece of cake on me! : )

I love you,
Mom

Good-bye beach....hello real world....

2011-04-16T21:02:00.000-05:00

*sigh*

Relaxing is so exhausting....!!!

2011-04-13T18:02:00.002-05:00

(one of the Girlies relaxing on the beach)

Another lazy day at the beach with the Girlies....
The weather is absolutely gorgeous here in Destin.
Low humidity...temps in the high 70's....lovely breezes.
The first night was shrimp and crabmeat.
Last night was pizza.
Tonight is bar-b-que.
And, in between is "Dancing with the Stars" and "American Idol".
Staying in bed for as long as we want.
It's pure heaven.

I may never go home.

Leaving the stress behind....

2011-04-12T20:09:00.000-05:00

There is something magical about being here at the beach.
It is hard to explain....but, it happens every time that I am here.
The warmth of the sun.
The pleasant breezes.
The ability to take deep breaths while letting go of the stresses in the past.
Being with the Girlies....laughing, talking, sharing.....being in the moment.

If this is a dream....please don't wake me up...

It's 'Girlie Time' again! : )

2011-04-10T18:51:00.000-05:00

I have been so looking forward to Monday getting here in that I am going away on another beach trip with the Girlies!!!!

This much needed break from the craziness of the house will be so wonderful....I can't wait to get my toes on that beautiful white sand....and toast the sundown with a cool glass of wine!

Talking, playing Mah Jongg, eating, eating, eating, wine drinking, laughing, reading, relaxing, breathing, etc. etc.

....just what the doctor ordered! : )

(I will post from there when I can....xoxo)